We understand your urgency and desire for unity and a blessed marriage. It's wonderful that you have mentioned the name of Jesus Christ. Let's start by praying for God's will to be done by aligning our hearts and requests to God.
Be still, and know that I am God. Psalm 46:10 WEB
First, let's acknowledge God's sovereignty over your marriage and your husband's salvation. Remember, it is the Holy Spirit's job to convict and bring your husband to Christ.
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 WEB
We pray that God's thoughts of peace, hope, and a future fill your marriage.
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. Ephesians 5:22-23 WEB
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her. Ephesians 5:25 WEB
We pray for God to work in your husband's heart, drawing him closer to Christ and granting him a deep, abiding love for you, as Christ loves the church.
We encourage you to live a life that reflects Christ's love and continue to pray fervently for your husband's salvation. Remember, God desires for all to come to repentance and be saved.
The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. 2 Peter 3:9 WEB
We must address that true love and desire in marriage are not merely physical or emotional, but deeply spiritual and selfless. It's crucial to focus on cultivating a Christ-centered love that seeks the good of the other above self.
Finally, we pray for your marriage to be a beautiful reflection of Christ's love for His church, growing stronger and more passionate every day.
That Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; to the end that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be strengthened to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know Christ's love which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Ephesians 3:17-19 WEB
Let your marriage be a testimony of God's grace and love, bringing glory to Him in every way. Keep praying, trusting, and believing in Jesus' name and the name of the Father and the Holy Spirit.