We understand your urgency and desperation is true. The passion and concern for your husband's salvation and your marriage is a concern. We are reminded of the love and concern for each other in marriage by the scripture of Ephesians 5:22-33 Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything.
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones. For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh. This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ. Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
The union and unity of marriage is to be in one accord and the very nature of the relationship that needs to be very carefully nurtured. We need to be very careful about what we pray and ask for. We want to make sure we are asking in the will of God. It is not about what we want or how passionately we want something, but in the very will of God. This includes the very words we use.
In the grandeur of our passion and desire we are not to use words like lust, hot, or sexual desire. These very words and thoughts denote a desire that is not of God, but more in line with the lusts of the world. In fact, the lusts of the world are sinful, but it is Godly to desire to be pleasing to your spouse and to be a spouse pleasing to God. We are to be very careful to not be so enamored with the lusts of the world that it leads to temptation and sin and falling away as we read in James 1:14-15 But each one is tempted, when he is drawn away by his own lust, and enticed. Then the lust, when it has conceived, bears sin; and the sin, when it is full grown, brings forth death.
We are to live pure and holy lives that are pleasing to God. We are not to fall into temptation and sin. We are to flee temptation and sin. We are to live holy lives of love for our spouses. We are to love them and treat them as we would love ourselves. We are to love our spouses as Christ loved the church.
We are also to be very careful to align our desires with the desires of God. This is not to say that we have a right to God's will. The scripture says that the desires of our hearts are to be aligned with the will of God. We are to be in the will of God. This is not to say that we have a right to God's will. The scripture says that the desires of our hearts are to be aligned with the will of God. We are to be in the will of God. When we are not in the will of God, we are to be very careful to not be in the will of God, but in the will of the world.
We are to be very careful to not be in the will of the world, but in the will of God. We are to be very careful to not be in the will of the world, but in the will of God. We are to be very careful to not be in the will of the world, but in the will of God.
###, let us pray.
Father God, we come before you to lift up this dear sister in Christ. We pray for her husband, that he may come to know you as his personal Lord and Savior. We pray that you will soften his heart and draw him to you. We pray that you will bring unity and agreement between them, that they may be one in heart, mind, and spirit. We pray that you will bless their marriage and their future together.
We pray that you will help them to love each other as you have loved us. We pray that you will help them to be kind, patient, and forgiving with each other. We pray that you will help them to communicate effectively and to resolve conflicts in a healthy and God-honoring way.
We pray that you will help them to resist temptation and to flee from sin. We pray that you will help them to live pure and holy lives that are pleasing to you. We pray that you will help them to be a light to the world and a testimony of your love and grace. Lord, we pray that you will work in their marriage and in their lives, that they may bring glory and honor to your name. We pray that you will give them your upholding peace, comfort, strength, and fulfillment. We pray that you will make them to be the husband and wife that you desire of them. We pray that you would draw them closer to you and to each other. We pray that the wife would see her role as God has established that the wife sees that she respects her husband.
Father God, we pray that you will give them their needs. We pray that you will give them the desires of their hearts according to your will. We pray that you will help them to align their desires with your will. We pray that you will help them to be content and satisfied in you. We pray that you will help them to find their fulfillment and satisfaction in you.
Father God, we pray that you will help them to be a blessing to each other and to the world. We pray that you will help them to be a testimony of your love and grace. We pray that you will help them to be a light to the world and a testimony of your love and grace. We pray that you will help them to be a blessing to each other and to the world.
Lord, we pray this in the name of Jesus Christ. We pray that you will help them to be a blessing to each other and to the world. We pray that you will help them to be a testimony of your love and grace. We pray that you will help them to be a light to the world and a testimony of your love and grace. We pray that you will help them to be a blessing to each other and to the world.
Lord, we pray that you will help them to be a blessing to each other and to the world. We pray that you will help them to be a testimony of your love and grace. We pray that you will help them to be a light to the world and a testimony of your love and grace. We pray that you will help them to be a blessing to each other and to the world.
Lord, we pray that you will help them to be a blessing to each other and to the world. We pray that you will help them to be a testimony of your love and grace. We pray that you will help them to be a light to the world and a testimony of your love and grace. We pray that you will help them to be a blessing to each other and to the world.
Let us all say Amen. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
