Cruising through life by yourself is easy, you can avoid threats to your security, do things at your own pace, in a way you feel most comfortable with. After all, God created us all uniquely. But unfortunately, if you know or have dealings with others, always it pops up that they try to either try to give you "pointers about doing things "their way" (or, it might be something that benefits them, but puts you in iffy circumstances, and takes you out of your comfort zone. And sooner or later...