We understand that you're feeling overlooked and hurting in your relationship, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. First, let's address some concerns in your request. You mentioned your "partner," but we believe in the sanctity of marriage between a man and a woman as outlined in the Bible. We will pray for godly spouses and marriages that honor God. If you are not married then the biblical term is fornication and should be immediately addressed and stopped.
It's also important to note that change in others starts with change in us. We can't control your spouse's actions, but we can pray for them and focus on our own spiritual growth. It is also important to explicitly mention Jesus Christ in prayer as it is only through his name that we have access to God.
Let's pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before you, lifting up our sister in Christ who is hurting in her relationship. We pray that you would comfort her and guide her through this difficult time. Lord, we ask that you would work in her spouse's heart, softening it, and drawing him closer to you. We pray that he would become the loving, affectionate, and caring husband you've called him to be. We pray for conviction, repentance, and a turning from drugs and any other sinful behavior. We pray for correction, healing, and growth. Lord, we also pray for our sister, that you would strengthen her faith and fill her with your love and peace. Help her to see her worth in your eyes and to find her identity in you. We pray for forgiveness, reconciliation, and restoration.
Father, we also pray for their parents, that they would be more present and supportive. We pray for healing and restoration in their family relationships as well.
Lastly, Father, we pray for healing, guidance, and provision according to your will. We ask that you would guide them both, giving them wisdom and discernment as they navigate this relationship. We pray that their relationship would honor and glorify you, Lord.
Remember, sister, that God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will guide you. As it says in Jeremiah 29:11-13 WEB: "'For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says Yahweh, 'thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. You shall call on me, and you shall go and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You shall seek me, and find me, when you search for me with all your heart.'"
Also, consider the words of Ephesians 5:25-30 WEB: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones."
Lastly, remember the words of 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB: "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
Stand strong in your faith, and remember that God is with you.