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Dyrwach

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Dear God, I’m struggling. I really don’t know how to get ### to start seeing me as a priority right now. I feel like I’m at the bottom of the ladder. I don’t feel like I’m anybody’s priority to anyone, to be honest. I feel like I mean nothing to everyone. I feel so hated and disgusting. I feel like I’m not important to anyone, even my own partner, and Lord, that hurts more than anything. Maybe I’m being selfish, and maybe I’m not seeing it from anyone else’s POV, and I’m sorry for that, but God, I’m genuinely trying to be everything to someone, and I just feel like my heart keeps being squished, and I’m so tired of it. Lord, I wish ### would see me for me. I wish ### would actually put me first and stop putting me second. Heavenly Father, I wish ### could see my point of view and start becoming more loving and caring about my feelings. Heavenly Father, I lift this relationship up to you, Lord, and I pray you soften ###’s heart in Jesus’ name. I pray, amen.
 
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We understand that you're feeling hurt and neglected in your relationship. First, let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up this child of Yours who is feeling unseen, unloved, and low in priority. We pray that You would comfort and strengthen them in this time of hurt. We ask that You would work in the heart of this person they are courting, that they would open their eyes and see the pain they are causing. Lord, we pray for healing, understanding, and a true display of godly love in this relationship. We also pray for wisdom and discernment for the one who has submitted this request, that they would understand if this courtship is truly Your will. We pray for guidance for both the man and the woman involved. We pray all these in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

It's important to remember that God sees you, loves you, and has a plan for you. As it says in Jeremiah 29:11,

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.

However, we want to address a few things in your prayer request. First, you mentioned that you're in a relationship but used the term "partner" instead of a spouse or a person you are courting with the goal of marriage. We want to remind you of God's design for relationships. Marriage is the lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. If you are not married, then you should be in a courtship with the goal of marriage and with a Christian believer. If you are not courting with the goal of marriage, then you should not be in the relationship. As it says in 2 Corinthians 6:14,

Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?

Second, you mentioned that you want this person to see you, to see your point of view, and to put you first. It's important to remember that our significance and value come from God, not from others. As 1 Peter 2:9 states,

But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God's own possession, that you may proclaim the excellence of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.

You also asked for this person to start becoming more loving and caring about your feelings. We want to remind you that God is the source of true love. As the Bible says in 1 John 4:19,

We love Him, because He first loved us.

You are not loving this person first. You are asking for love before loving. God calls us to love first. We pray for you as you seek God's will for this relationship. As Ephesians 5:1-2 says,

Be therefore imitators of God, as beloved children. Walk in love, even as Christ also loved you, and gave himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling fragrance.

Lastly, you did mention Jesus Christ in your prayer. We commend you for praying in His name. If you have not already, turn your life over to Him. He is the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Him. As it says in John 14:6,

Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."

We encourage you to seek God's will in this relationship. Pray for wisdom and discernment. Remember that God's plan for you is good, and He wants the best for you. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. As the Bible says in Proverbs 3:5-6,

Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
 
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Dear friend, we hear your heart's cry and we're here for you. It's tough feeling unseen and unloved, but remember, God sees you, He knows your pain, and He's right there with you. In Jesus' name, we lift up this situation to Him. We pray that He would comfort you, fill you with His love, and give you the strength to endure. We also ask that He would open the other person's eyes to see your worth and the hurt they're causing. Lord, we pray for healing, understanding, and a true display of godly love in this relationship. We trust You to work in both of your hearts. As for you, keep seeking God's will, and remember, your value comes from Him, not others. Keep loving first, as He loves us. We're here for you, praying for you. Trust in Him, and He'll direct your paths.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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We continue to feel honored that you shared your heartfelt relationship struggles with us. It is our privilege to stand with you in prayer, lifting your concerns to our Heavenly Father.

If you have seen improvements in your relationship and your partner is starting to prioritize you more, we would love to hear about it. Your praise report will encourage us and others who are praying for you.

However, if you are still feeling unseen, unheard, or unhated, please know that we are here for you. We invite you to share a new prayer request, updating us on how things have been. We want to continue interceding on your behalf, asking God to soften your partner's heart and to bring healing and restoration to your relationship.

In the meantime, we pray that you will find comfort and strength in Jesus Christ. Remember, He sees you, He hears you, and He loves you more than anyone else ever could. You are a priority to Him.

We are praying for you in Jesus Name.
 
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