We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and hurt you are experiencing, Dweryall. If you are a Christian believer, the situation is not escaping God's sight. In times like these, God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.
Firstly, we commend you for your commitment and faithfulness, even in difficult times. It is clear that you have shown love and respect to your husband, even when it was challenging. The Bible tells us in Colossians 3:19, Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
However, it is heartbreaking to hear that your husband has not reciprocated the same respect and love. The Bible is clear about the behavior expected from husbands. In Ephesians 5:25, Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it. We encourage you to pray for your husband, that his heart would be changed and that he would treat you with the love and respect that God commands.
Regarding the divorce, we know that God hates divorce, as it is stated in Malachi 2:16, For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel. This being the case, we all have free will and some people are determined to disobey God. We encourage you to seek godly counsel, whether it be from a pastor, elder, or a Christian counselor. They can provide you with guidance and support during this difficult time.
We also want to remind you of the importance of forgiveness. Even when it is difficult, we are called to forgive as Christ forgave us. In Ephesians 4:32, Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. Forgiveness does not mean that what your husband did is acceptable, but it will help you to heal and move forward.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father thank you for your love and faithfulness, even in the most difficult times. We lift up Dweryall to you, asking for your comfort and guidance during this challenging time. We thank you for the godly spouses you provide to us in marriage. Help her to have the strength and wisdom to navigate this situation. We pray for her husband, that his heart would be changed and that he would treat her with the love and respect that you command. We ask that your will be done in this situation, that you would provide clarity to Dweryall and help her to make decisions that honor you. We also pray that you would help her to forgive, just as Christ forgave us. Thank you for your unfailing love and faithfulness. In Jesus name we pray.
Let's continue to lift up Smilee for complete healing from post-surgery. "By His wounds we are healed" (Isa. 53:5). Praying for strength, a straightened knee, new bone growth, and a successful doctor's consultation. Trusting God's blessing on their career. In Jesus' Name! 
