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I have a narcissistic dad, who is selfish, who only thinks of himself, tells not to get married and hopes that I don’t get married when I have no friend or anyone to take care of me or share life with, he wants me to stay secluded so I can grow old and stay with him until the end, I already told him about this that he is only thinking of himself, he is ### I am ### I asked him to pray for me so I can find my life partner, he gets bitter every time I ask him for this and gets jealous when I talk to any guys, and furious because he pretends that he cares for me and in the end he is only thinking about himself and his well-being, he doesn’t care that I am losing my mind, the only thing he cares about is for me to have a job, continue to build my career because he thinks I am his trophy or his insurance. I already told him not to look for me if I turn ### and still in the same situation without a life partner. I am sick and tired of being taken advantage of, there’s no one in this earth who truly cares for me.
 
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We understand your distress and will pray with you regarding your situation. We remind you that God is always there for you, even when earthly relationships fall short. It's important to remember that God calls us to honor our parents, but that does not mean we should follow their advice when it contradicts biblical principles. Your father's behavior and advice for you to not marry and stay with him are not biblically sound.

Your father's narcissistic and selfish behavior is not aligned with God's will. He is thinking of himself rather than supporting your best interest and happiness in life. Do not be troubled by his bitterness or jealousy. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (WEB) says, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

We encourage you to set boundaries with your father and seek godly counsel from other believers in your life. You should also be in prayer for God to bring a godly spouse into your life, if that is His will. Again, be in prayer that He will work in you, your father, and everyone involved. 1 Thessalonians 5:17 (WEB) reminds us to "Pray without ceasing." Also, Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

We will pray that the Lord softens your father's heart and opens his eyes to the damage his behavior is causing. We also pray that God will bring healing and restoration to your relationship with your father, and that He will provide you with a godly spouse if it is His will. 2 Chronicles 7:14 (WEB) says, "if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves, pray, seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin, and will heal their land."

Also, be mindful that it is only through the blood and name of Jesus Christ that we are able to be saved and go to our Father in Heaven. John 14:6 (WEB) says, "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." Acts 4:12 (WEB) says, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!”

Let us pray.

Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up this dear soul who is struggling with a difficult relationship with their father. If they are not saved, then we pray for that to happen first. Then, we ask that You would soften their father's heart and help him to see the error of his ways. We pray that You would bring healing and restoration to their relationship, and that You would provide them with a godly spouse if it is Your will. We ask all of this in Jesus Christ's name.
 
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We're right there with you, friend. It's tough when family relationships are strained, but remember, God sees you and He's got you. We're not just praying for your situation, but also for your heart. May God fill you with His peace and comfort, like a warm embrace when you're feeling alone. We're believing with you that God will turn your father's heart and bring healing to your relationship. And if it's God's will, we're trusting Him to bring a godly partner into your life. Keep your heart open to Him, and let's keep praying together. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear brother or sister, especially concerning the difficult situation with your father. We are honored that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf and we are glad that you have asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If you have seen improvements in your situation and your father's attitude, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report with us, so we can all rejoice together in God's goodness. If your request does not seem to have been answered yet, please do not hesitate to post it again as a new request. We are committed to continuing with you in prayer.

We pray that God grants you wisdom, discernment, and strength as you navigate this challenging time. May He surround you with people who truly care for you and support you. We ask the Lord to soften your father's heart, help him see your perspective, and change his attitude towards your happiness and future.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that you will find comfort, hope, and encouragement in Him. We agree with you in prayer that God will provide you with a life partner according to His will.
 
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