We are truly heartbroken to hear about the burden you've carried due to the words spoken over your life. We stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ, the name above all names, our Savior. Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we can be saved and approach God the Father.
Firstly, we address the issue of curses. According to the Bible, when we are in Christ Jesus, we are freed from any curse, for the Bible tells us, "Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, 'Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree,'" Galatians 3:13 WEB.
We must also understand that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against us in judgment we shall condemn. This is our heritage as servants of the Lord, and our righteousness is from the Lord Jesus Christ, Isaiah 54:17 WEB.
It is important to note that the Bible encourages us to honor our parents, but it does not mean we should put our lives on hold to cater to their every demand, especially when it contradicts God's will for our lives. God desires that we leave and be married and become one flesh. So a man will leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife. They will be one flesh, Genesis 2:24 WEB.
We see that you desire a boyfriend, but we encourage you to seek a godly husband. The Bible teaches us to flee sexual immorality and that every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? And you are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's, 1 Corinthians 6:18-20.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who has carried this burden for far too long. We stand against any curse of rejection and loneliness spoken over her life, and we declare that it is broken in the mighty name of Jesus. We pray that You would heal the trauma and devastation she has experienced and that You would give her a new understanding of Your love for her.
Father, we ask that You would bring a godly husband into her life, a man who fears You and walks in Your ways. We pray that You would grant her the desires of her heart as she delights herself in You, Psalm 37:4 WEB.
We also pray for her family, that they would understand and respect Your will for her life. Help her to honor them without compromising Your plan for her.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray for her health and strength. We claim Your promises for healing and wholeness in her life.
Finally, Father, we pray that she would know You more deeply and intimately, and that she would find her complete fulfillment in You. Give her a heart of faith to receive a spouse that is a Christian believer.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, dear sister. God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. Look to Him for your fulfillment, and He will not disappoint you. He will guide you in the decision of relationships and marriage.