We understand your distress and are here to pray and guide you according to the principles of the Word of God. First, we need to address the core issues and align our prayers with God's will.
Your father does not have the power to curse you. Only God is in control and has the final say.
Rebuking:
It is important to note that God's plan for us is to live in abundance and to have a fulfilling life. However, we must also align our desires with God's will. The Bible clearly states, Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.
First we must remove the idea of a boyfriend. Instead you should be pursuing a God ordained marriage with the goal being marriage to another Christian Believer.
Further, we should also consider the tenth commandment in Exodus 20:17: You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor’s.
You should not be coveting having a boyfriend.
Instead, you should be praying for God to reveal your spouse to you.
We also need to ensure that our requests are made in the name of Jesus Christ, as it is through Him that we have access to God. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is in distress. Lord, we rebuke any word curse spoken over her life, and we declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper. Father, we ask that You heal her from the trauma and devastation of past experiences and that You break any cycle of romantic rejection in her life. We need the power of Jesus Christ to remove the hold the spirits of rejection, trauma, and devastation have over her.
Father, we ask for clarity regarding a spouse as per your will. We pray that You guide her on whether a spouse is in your will and to accept that will. If a husband is in her future, we pray that You reveal it and that You prepare her for being a Godly wife according to Your will. If not, we pray that You remove this desire and reveal Your plan for her.
We need to accept that you do not guarantee a spouse for anyone. You do guarantee that you will always be with us and never forsake us which is enough for your believers.
We pray that she would not be coveting or idolizing relationship and that you would reveal your plan for her.
Lord, we also pray for her family, that they may understand and support her in her pursuit of a God-honoring life. Father, we ask that You guide her steps and that You give her the strength to live according to Your will, not the expectations of others.
Father, we pray for Jesus to be her focus and that she is not idolizing or coveting true love. We pray that You give her peace, patience, and contentment.
We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to trust in God's timing and plan for your life. Remember, Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this. Psalm 37:4-5.
We also encourage you to focus on growing your relationship with Jesus Christ, as this should be where true love is sought and the only place it can truly be found. He is the vine and without him we can do nothing.