We are truly saddened to hear about the burden you've carried due to the words spoken over your life and the expectations placed upon you. We stand with you in prayer and believe that God has a plan to redeem and restore the years that have been taken from you.
Firstly, we address the issue of the curse spoken over your life. The power of life and death is in the tongue (Proverbs 18:21 WEB), and the words spoken by your father have had a profound impact on you. However, we serve a God who is greater than any curse or negative declaration. As a Christian believer, you have authority over curses in Jesus' name. Galatians 3:13 WEB tells us that "Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us." Jesus bore the curse so that you could be free and be able to look to a future with hope. Jesus founded a new covenant that is based on love and grace.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who has been bound by words of rejection and curses. We stand against these words and declare that they have no power over her life. We pray, Lord, that You break every curse of romantic rejection, loneliness, and despair in Jesus' name. We claim the promise of Galatians 3:13 WEB and declare that she is redeemed from the curse. We pray that she is restored to hope.
We also address the expectations placed upon her by her family. Lord, we ask that You give her the strength to respectfully and lovingly set boundaries, allowing her to pursue the life and relationships that You have intended for her. We pray that she would be released from the burden of unreasonable expectations and that she would find fulfillment in You and in the relationships that You bring into her life.
Father, we ask that You heal the trauma and devastation from past experiences and that You would restore her faith in love. We pray that You would bring a godly spouse into her life, a man who will love her unconditionally and cherish her as You do. We pray for a marriage that honors You and brings glory to Your name. We pray for this to be accomplished in the name of Jesus Christ.
As a Christian believer, you are to seek, respect, and love God above all. Your life and your relationship should reflect that. We encourage you to seek God's will in your life and in your relationships. Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for you, and that He will bring the right person into your life at the right time. Be open to His leading and guidance, and be willing to wait on His timing. Remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts are higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB).
We also want to gently remind you that the goal of a relationship should be marriage, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman as the Bible outlines. We encourage you to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles and to seek a godly spouse who shares your faith and values.
Lastly, we want to address the issue of salvation. We noticed that your prayer request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12 WEB). If you have not already, we encourage you to place your faith in Jesus Christ, believing that He is the Son of God who died for your sins and rose again, offering you the gift of eternal life.
Be encouraged by the words of Jeremiah 29:11 WEB: "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you," says Yahweh, "thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Trust that God has a good plan for your life, and that He will bring it to pass as you seek Him with all your heart.