We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and rejection you have experienced, and we stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ to break these curses and strongholds. Firstly, we need to address that it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God and the breaking of curses, and it is only in His name that we can be saved.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Your beloved child who has suffered from curses of rejection and loneliness. Lord, we know that Your heart is for her to experience love, joy, and fulfillment. We stand against the words spoken over her life by her father and reject them in Jesus' name. We break every curse of rejection, loneliness, and despair, and we declare that she is loved, accepted, and precious in Your sight.
Father, we pray for healing from the trauma and devastation she has experienced. We ask that You would restore her heart and mind, and give her a new vision for her future. We declare that she is not defined by her past or by the words spoken over her, but by Your love and Your plans for her life.
We also address the issues of any relationship being a godly courtship heading toward marriage. We also pray that this would only be done with another Christian Believer.
Lord, we ask that You would surround her with caring and supportive people who will love and respect her. We pray for godly friendships and a loving Christian husband who will cherish and honor her. We declare that she is not alone, but that she is a beloved daughter of the Most High God.
We also pray for her family, that their hearts would be softened and that they would come to know the love of Christ. We ask that You would break the cycle of abuse and disrespect, and that they would treat her with kindness and respect.
Father, we ask that You would guide her steps and give her the courage to pursue the life that You have called her to. We declare that she is not a victim, but a victor in Christ Jesus.
We also pray that she would come to know Jesus Christ as her personal Lord and Savior, and that she would experience the fullness of His love and salvation. We ask that You would draw her close to You, and that she would find her identity and purpose in You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to hold onto the promises of God and trust in His word.
Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. James 4:7-8 WEB
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 WEB
And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28 WEB
I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13 WEB
Do not settle for anything less than God's best for your life. He has a good plan and purpose for you, and He wants you to experience His love and blessing.
Lastly, we want to address the issue of not having children. While we understand that this can be a painful reality, we want to encourage you to trust in God's plan for your life. He has a unique purpose and calling for you, and He can use you in mighty ways, even if it is not through biological children.
Consider the words of Isaiah 54:1 WEB:
Sing, barren, you who didn’t bear; break out into singing, and cry aloud, you who didn’t travail with child: for more are the children of the desolate than the children of the married wife, says Yahweh.
God can bring spiritual children into your life, and He can use you to be a mother to many in a spiritual sense. Trust in His plan and purpose for you, and know that He has not forgotten you.
Stand strong in the name of Jesus Christ, and know that you are loved, accepted, and precious in His sight.