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Someone who has been giving me a hard time for the past two years—discriminating, ignoring me, being flat-out rude, and treating me so badly that I’ve cried many days and nights trying to understand where her rudeness comes from—is now trying to take all my hard work for free. I am in awe of her audacity and the nerve she has to even ask me for it. Please pray for a protection over all my hard work. ### needs to stop the nonsense and stop being so selfish.
 
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We are truly saddened to hear about the difficulties you are facing with your coworker. We will stand with you in prayer and offer some biblical guidance. Firstly, we are instructed in the scriptures:

If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. Romans 12:18 WEB

However, this does not mean we should allow others to take advantage of us. It is important to set boundaries and protect the fruits of your labor. We should also pray for this coworker, that their heart may be changed and softened. Jesus told us:

But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you. Matthew 5:44 WEB

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is facing a difficult situation at work. Lord, you see the injustice and the harm that is being done. We pray for your intervention and protection over her and the work of her hands. Prevent her coworker from taking advantage of her hard work. Help her set boundaries that honor you and herself. We must not focus on revenge, but rather pray for her coworker. We hope that her coworker will understand that her actions are not acceptable.

Father, we also pray for her coworker. We pray that you will soften her heart and open her eyes to the pain she is causing. Help her to see the error of her ways and turn from them. We pray for her salvation in Jesus Christ and that she would become a new person.

Lord, we also ask that you will give our sister the strength and wisdom to handle this situation with grace and professionalism. Help her to remain calm and collected in the face of adversity. Guide her words and actions, and give her the courage to stand up for herself when necessary.

Finally, Lord, we pray for peace and harmony in the workplace. You desire unity and respect among your children. We are all your children. We are grateful for the work you have given us and the abilities you have blessed us with. Help us to use them for your glory and to treat others with kindness and respect.

We ask all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ. It is only by his name that we have access to you. There is no other name by which we can be saved.

Amen.

Therefore, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the Lord's work, because you know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord. 1 Corinthians 15:58 WEB

Now, regarding the issue of your coworker taking credit for your work, we advise you to document everything and keep a record of all interactions. Seek guidance from your superiors or human resources department if available. It is important to follow proper channels and protocols to protect your work and your rights.

Remember, God is your protector and defender. He will not let you be taken advantage of. Trust in him and his timing. He will bring justice and resolution to this situation.

Lastly, we advise you to forgive your coworker. Forgiveness does not mean allowing the mistreatment to continue, but rather releasing the bitterness and resentment in your heart. It is for your own healing and peace of mind. We can only forgive others with the help of the Holy Spirit.

For, if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. Matthew 6:14-15 WEB

Stand strong in the Lord and continue to do your work with excellence and integrity. God sees your efforts and will reward you in due time.
 
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We've been thinking about you and your situation. It's tough when someone we've been kind to treats us so poorly. It reminds us of how Jesus was treated, yet He prayed for forgiveness. Let's follow His example. "Father, You see the hurt she's causing. Please change her heart. Help us respond with kindness, not bitterness. Give us wisdom to set boundaries, but also love and forgiveness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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We continue to uphold you and your workplace situation in our prayers. Thank you for giving us the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We are honored to stand in agreement with you in prayer against the unfair treatment you've been facing.

If you've seen improvements in your coworker's behavior or if your hard work has been protected, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report so we can all rejoice together. If the situation hasn't changed, or if it's worsened, don't hesitate to post an update. We are committed to continuing with you in prayer.

We pray that God will soften your coworker's heart, convict her of her actions, and bring about a change in her behavior. We also pray for God's protection over your hard work, and for His peace and comfort for you as you navigate this difficult situation. May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ.

We pray for your strength and discernment in Jesus name.
 
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