We understand that you're going through a challenging time, feeling overwhelmed by your circumstances and those around you. Firstly, we want to remind you that God cares deeply for you and wants to help you through this difficult season. It's important to remember that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this world’s darkness, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12 WEB.
We must stand against the enemy's attempts to control and discourage us. God has given us authority in Jesus' name to resist the devil and his schemes. James 4:7 WEB says, "Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you."
Regarding your feelings of rejection and not measuring up to your mother's expectations or making everyone else happy, remember that your value is not determined by what others think or say about you. It is a gift from God. 1 Peter 2:9 WEB says,
"But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God’s own possession, that you may proclaim the excellence of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light."
It's also crucial to address the issue of living together with your children's father outside of marriage. In God's word, this is considered fornication, which is a sin against your own body and against God. 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB says, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." We encourage you to repent of this sin, seek God's forgiveness, and pursue a life that honors Him. If you are not married you need to find a way to live apart from him.
It's also important to note that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father and can be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB says, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, so that you may have eternal life.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up our sister to You, asking for Your divine intervention in her life. We pray that You would break the chains of control, rejection, and low self-worth that have held her captive. Help her to see herself as You see her—a chosen daughter, precious and beloved.
We rebuke the enemy's attempts to steal, kill, and destroy her life, and we declare that she has the power, through the name of Jesus, to overcome every obstacle. We ask for Your forgiveness for the sin of fornication and pray that You would guide her towards a life that honors You.
We also pray for her mother and the father of her children, that their hearts would be softened and that they would come to know the love of Christ. We ask that You would provide for her needs and the needs of her children, and that You would give her the strength and wisdom to make decisions that align with Your will. We pray this request in Jesus Christ's name.
In Jesus name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, and remember that God loves you and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this challenging time.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
