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I proposed to a woman who is working with me but she rejected me and also she's going to spread this news in the entire office, which is going to be an entire shame for me. I pray in Jesus' name to keep her immature mouth silent. I don't know why I did this. Most of the colleagues in the office are untrustworthy. This is going to be very hard for me. I'm not afraid by the grace of God but feel shame about her attitude and how my personality is going to be destroyed in seconds.
 
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We understand your distress, but let's remember that God allows all things to work together for good to those who love Him, to those who are the called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28). First, let's address your request to keep her silent. It's important to remember that controlling someone else's actions is not something we can achieve through prayer. Instead, we should pray for God's will to be done, and for Him to guide and direct both your hearts and actions and your coworker.

What is important about this situation is that you are concerned about your reputation and personality. Do not be ashamed, Jesus was also rejected. Consider the following advice and encouragement.

For you, brother, who proposed marriage to a woman, you have done well. If she refuses, as she has, there is no need for you to seek to control her mouth. Make sure that your conduct is as it should be.

If you are indeed trusting in God's grace, then lean on Him fully. Do not let this trial dishearten you. Remember that Jesus said, Blessed are you when people reproach you, persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice, and be exceedingly glad, for great is your reward in heaven. For that is how they persecuted the prophets who were before you. (Matthew 5:11-12)

Let's pray together:

Almighty God, we come before You, lifting up our brother who is facing this challenging situation. We pray that You will comfort him and guide his actions. We ask that Your will be done in the life of his coworker, and that You will soften her heart and guide her actions as well according to Your will. Help our brother to stand firm in his faith, to be a light in his workplace, and to trust in You. May this situation be used for Your glory, and for the spiritual growth of your brother. Protect and encourage him. We ask this in Jesus' name.

Lastly, remember that God is working in your life, and that this trial can be an opportunity for growth and testimony. Stand firm in your faith, and trust in God's plan for your life. As for your coworker, pray for her salvation if she is not a Christian. Leave the rest up to God. Continue your courtship with another Christian woman.
 
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We're here for you, brother. It's tough when things don't go as planned, but remember, God sees all and works all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). Let's pray for wisdom and grace to navigate this situation.

We can't control others, but we can trust that God will guide our own hearts and actions. Let's ask Him to soften your coworker's heart, help her see the truth, and guide her actions according to His will. We also pray for you, that you'll stand firm in your faith, maintain your integrity, and trust in God's plan for your life.

"God, we come to You, seeking Your comfort and guidance for our brother. Help him to face this challenge with courage and grace. We ask that You'll work in the heart of his coworker, softening it and guiding her actions. Help our brother to be a light in his workplace, to trust in You, and to use this situation for Your glory. Protect and encourage him, we pray, in Jesus' name. Amen."

Let's keep praying, brother. God's got this. Trust in Him, and let's see how He turns this situation around for your good and His glory.
 
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We understand your distress, but let's remember that God allows all things to work together for good to those who love Him, to those who are the called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28). First, let's address your request to keep her silent. It's important to remember that controlling someone else's actions is not something we can achieve through prayer. Instead, we should pray for God's will to be done, and for Him to guide and direct both your hearts and actions and your coworker.

What is important about this situation is that you are concerned about your reputation and personality. Do not be ashamed, Jesus was also rejected. Consider the following advice and encouragement.

For you, brother, who proposed marriage to a woman, you have done well. If she refuses, as she has, there is no need for you to seek to control her mouth. Make sure that your conduct is as it should be.

If you are indeed trusting in God's grace, then lean on Him fully. Do not let this trial dishearten you. Remember that Jesus said, Blessed are you when people reproach you, persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice, and be exceedingly glad, for great is your reward in heaven. For that is how they persecuted the prophets who were before you. (Matthew 5:11-12)

Let's pray together:

Almighty God, we come before You, lifting up our brother who is facing this challenging situation. We pray that You will comfort him and guide his actions. We ask that Your will be done in the life of his coworker, and that You will soften her heart and guide her actions as well according to Your will. Help our brother to stand firm in his faith, to be a light in his workplace, and to trust in You. May this situation be used for Your glory, and for the spiritual growth of your brother. Protect and encourage him. We ask this in Jesus' name.

Lastly, remember that God is working in your life, and that this trial can be an opportunity for growth and testimony. Stand firm in your faith, and trust in God's plan for your life. As for your coworker, pray for her salvation if she is not a Christian. Leave the rest up to God. Continue your courtship with another Christian woman.

Her mother was Christian Once, married to a ###. She lived as ###. Because of Her mother's Christian heritage, I proposed her. I don't know, why I did this.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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