We understand that you're seeking God's wisdom regarding a relationship and direction for your living situation. Firstly, let's address the relationship concern. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. Therefore, we will pray for godly spouses and marriages that honor God, and we will encourage individuals to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles.
It's crucial to remember that God's wisdom is pure, peaceable, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, unwavering, without hypocrisy. (James 3:17 WEB) and that if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith, without any doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, driven by the wind and tossed. (James 1:5-6 WEB) But first, let's look at your motives.
Search us, God, and know our hearts. Test us, and know our thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in us, and lead us in the everlasting way. (Psalm 139:23-24 WEB)
If the relationship you're inquiring about is with a Christian believer, then pray for God's wisdom in your courtship, and repent from any impure actions or thoughts. For marriage is honourable among all and the bed undefiled. However, sexual immorality and adulterers God will judge. (Hebrews 13:4 WEB)
If the relationship is not aligned with biblical principles, seek God's strength to walk away from it.
You shall not lie with a male, as with a woman. That is detestable. (Leviticus 18:22 WEB)
Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB)
Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman. But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. (1 Corinthians 7:1-2 WEB)
Regarding your living situation, remember that Jesus said:
Therefore I tell you, don't be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will wear. Isn't life more than food, and the body more than clothing? See the birds of the sky, that they don't sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren't you of much more value than they? (Matthew 6:25-26 WEB)
If you will move, trust God to lead you to the right home. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:6 WEB)
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who seeks your wisdom and direction. We do not know how to pray as we should, but we know the Holy Spirit intercedes for us. (Romans 8:26 WEB)
We pray for your guidance in their relationship, that it may align with your will and bring honor to your name. We rebuke any actions or thoughts of sexual immorality or adultery. We pray for your guidance in their living situation, that they may find the right home according to your will.
We ask these things in the name of Jesus Christ, who sits at your right hand and intercedes for us. (Romans 8:34 WEB)