Why the imbalance?

[Steven Bobb]

I notice how many times we're told to "overlook what unsaved people do to us. BUT, in the meantime, while they're doing all kinds of (intentionally) mean and nasty things to us, I notice that while all the pressure is on us to "forgive them, not one word is said to them about curtailing THEIR bad actions, creating an imbalance that seems unfair. Wondering why it's not spread out equally, we seem to be under stricter instructions, while they, when causing problems, seem to get away with it." Wondering why this imbalance?

 

[Articles]

We understand your concern about the apparent imbalance between the instructions for believers to forgive and the lack of accountability for those who cause harm. This is a common question, and it's important to consider the biblical perspective on this issue.

Firstly, let's remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). He calls us to a higher standard because we are His children and representatives on earth. We are instructed to forgive as we have been forgiven (Ephesians 4:32, WEB). This is not because God is unfair, but because He wants us to reflect His character and demonstrate His love to the world.

Jesus made it clear that we are to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44, WEB). This does not mean that we condone or ignore their actions. Rather, it means that we trust God to deal with them in His way and in His time. As believers, our responsibility is to remain blameless and above reproach, reflecting God's love and mercy even in difficult situations.

It's also important to note that while we are instructed to forgive, this does not mean we should allow ourselves to be continually mistreated or abused. Setting boundaries and removing ourselves from harmful situations is wise and necessary (Proverbs 22:3, WEB). We can forgive someone while also protecting ourselves from further harm.

Moreover, the Bible teaches that God will judge everyone according to their deeds (Revelation 20:12, WEB). Those who cause harm and do not repent will face His judgment. Our role is to trust in His justice and continue to live in obedience to His commands.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, seeking Your wisdom and understanding. Help us to forgive as You have forgiven us, and to trust in Your justice. Give us the strength to love our enemies and to pray for those who persecute us. Guide us in setting boundaries and protecting ourselves from harm, while also reflecting Your love and mercy. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you haven't already, consider committing your life to Jesus Christ, believing in His death and resurrection for your salvation. This is the foundation of our faith and the reason we strive to live according to God's will.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about this too, and it's true that sometimes it feels like there's an imbalance. But remember, God sees all, and He's the ultimate judge. While we're called to forgive and love, that doesn't mean we should tolerate ongoing harm. It's about setting boundaries and trusting God with the rest. Let's keep praying for wisdom and strength to live this out, in Jesus' name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Prayingangel]

I notice how many times we're told to "overlook what unsaved people do to us. BUT, in the meantime, while they're doing all kinds of (intentionally) mean and nasty things to us, I notice that while all the pressure is on us to "forgive them, not one word is said to them about curtailing THEIR bad actions, creating an imbalance that seems unfair. Wondering why it's not spread out equally, we seem to be under stricter instructions, while they, when causing problems, seem to get away with it." Wondering why this imbalance?

The Bible says There is a way that seemeth right to a man...but the end thereof is destruction. The wicked take pleasure in wrongdoing for a season..then comes judgement. Only God knows when it will happen and in what form. It's not us to decide when or how the wicked end up reaping what they have sown which are bad seeds that produce a negative and painful result. I trust God and pray for people harming others because the result of doing this is bad for them. Satan is not their friend and will gladly sell his followers down the river in the end. Laughing as he witnesses their destruction..in the meantime praying you just stay close to God and Jesus. In this world we will have trouble..but Jesus has overcome the world. He is our protector.provider and healer. He also understands as He was treated horribly by people when He was on earth..Amen

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray with you concerning the apparent imbalance you've noticed in the way Christians are instructed to forgive and the seemingly lesser emphasis on unsaved people being called to account for their actions. We truly believe that the Lord has heard your cry and is working on your behalf. We are glad that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If you have since found peace and understanding in this matter, we would be blessed to hear about it. Please consider returning to share a praise report and let us all know how God has been faithful in this situation. If, however, you are still struggling with this issue, we want you to know that we are here for you. Feel free to post your request again so that we can continue to pray with you and for you.

May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him and wrestle with these thoughts. May He grant you His peace, which surpasses all understanding, and may He make His paths clear to you. We are praying that you will come to a place of resolution and rest in this matter, all in Jesus Name, Amen.