Why are you not sure that a ### is God's will???

[natasha2]

Can somebody explain to me why is it God's will to be healed, God's will to have a prosperous life, God's will to get a job, God's will to have an apartment, God's will to have peace, God's will to find a lost item, God's will to ask for any kind of help AND IT IS MAYBE NOT God's will to have a love/husband although I have so much turmoil and sadness and loneliness and despair about it??? I don't believe that God will put such a huge desire in my heart for that and then not give it to me because maybe it is not God's will? Where is this in the Bible, please? He says He will fulfill our needs (I have a need for a friend/companion and love) and so our God is tyrannical and He will torture me for the rest of my life??? It is written - it is not good for a man/woman to be alone! And if I feel alone without a life partner, He wants to fulfill my need, so please STOP WITH THIS - IF IT'S God's will. THIS IS RELIGIOUS NONSENSE. To keep people in bondage. Look at what happens with Catholic priests because they are not allowed to have a companion. Very few people don't have emotional and sexual needs and a need for a partner. To them, you can say your horrible doctrine which brings to the person who wants a husband feeling like God is playing with them and asking of them to do this and that and to feel guilty and to be tortured for the rest of their life. God mentions the joy of a fulfilled prayer. So please stop telling me if it's God's will. You can say that it is maybe God's will for everything that we are praying for here. When you pray, don't be double-minded. The prayer will not be answered if you pray IF IT'S God's will. God's will is written in His word and it says it is not good for the man/woman to be alone. And a bunch of other verses about our needs and desires.

 

[Articles]

Natasha, we understand your struggle and desire for a husband, and we want to address your concerns with biblical truth and compassion. You asked why it might not be God's will for you to have a husband, and we want to assure you that God does care about your desires and loneliness.

Firstly, let's look at what the Bible says about being alone. In Genesis 2:18, God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him." This verse shows that God acknowledges that people need companionship. However, it's essential to understand that God's will is for us to be in relationship with Him first and foremost. He wants us to find our completeness in Him, and then He may add to that with a spouse.

In Matthew 6:33, Jesus tells us, "But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." This verse reminds us that our primary focus should be on seeking God and His righteousness. When we do that, He will provide for our needs according to His will.

Now, let's address the idea that God might be withholding a husband from you. God is not a tyrant; He is a loving Father who wants the best for His children. In Psalm 37:4, it is written, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." This means that when we delight in the Lord, He will place the right desires in our hearts and fulfill them according to His will.

It's important to remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts are higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). Sometimes, we may desire something that God knows is not best for us, or His timing may be different from ours. Trust that God has a plan and a purpose for your life, even in your seasons of loneliness.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You to lift up ###. Lord, she feels lonely and desires a husband, and we are asking You to comfort her and fill her with Your presence. Help her to find her completeness in You and to trust in Your plan for her life. Lord, if it is Your will, please provide a godly husband for her, a man who will love and cherish her as Christ loves the Church. In the meantime, help her to delight in You and to seek Your kingdom first. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

###, please continue to trust in God and to seek Him with all your heart. He knows your desires and will provide for you according to His will. Do not be double-minded in your prayers; trust that God knows what is best for you and that He will answer your prayers according to His perfect plan.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear ###,

We hear your heart's cry for companionship and understanding. We're here to walk alongside you, offering encouragement and hope found in God's Word.

Firstly, we want to assure you that God sees your loneliness and desires for a husband. In Psalm 147:3, it's written, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." God knows your pain, and He's close to you in your loneliness.

We understand that it can be challenging to trust God's will when it feels different from our own. But remember, God's ways are not always our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9). He sees the bigger picture and knows what's best for us, even when it's hard to understand.

Instead of focusing on why you might not have a husband yet, let's shift our perspective. In Matthew 6:33, Jesus teaches us to seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness. When we do, He promises to meet our needs. So, let's ask ourselves, "How can I grow more in love with God and serve Him in this season?"

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, thank You for seeing ###'s loneliness and desires. Comfort her, Lord, and fill her with Your peace. Help her to trust in Your plan and to find her completeness in You. If it's Your will, Lord, please provide a godly husband for her, a man who will love and cherish her as Christ loves the Church. Help her to delight in You and seek Your kingdom first. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

###, keep trusting God. He loves you and has a purpose for your life. In every circumstance, we can choose to trust Him and find joy in Him. You're not alone; we're here for you, and so is God.

 

[The Encourager]

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.

 

[Arike]

Can somebody explain to me why is it God's will to be healed, God's will to have a prosperous life, God's will to have a job, God's will to have an apartment, God's will to have peace, God's will to find a lost item, God's will to ask for any kind of help AND IT IS MAYBE NOT God's will to have a love/husband although I have so much turmoil and sadness and loneliness and despair about it??? I don't believe that God will put such a huge desire in my heart for that and then not give it to me because maybe it is not God's will? Where is this in the Bible please??. He says He will fulfill our needs (I have a need for friend/companion and love) and so our God is tyrannical and He will torture me for the rest of my life??? It is written - it is not good for a man/woman to be alone! And if I feel alone without a life partner He wants to fulfill my need, so please STOP WITH THIS - IF IT'S God's will -. THIS IS RELIGIOUS NONSENSE. To keep people in bondage. Look at what happens with Catholic priests because they are not allowed to have a companion. Very few people don't have emotional and sexual needs and a need for a partner. To them you can say your horrible doctrine which brings to the person who wants a husband feeling like God is playing with them and asking of them to do this and that and to feel guilty and to be tortured for the rest of their life. God mentions joy of fulfilled prayer. So please stop telling me if it's God's will. You can say that it is maybe God's will for everything that we are praying for here. When you pray, don't be double-minded. The prayer will not be answered if you pray IF IT'S God's will. God's will is written in His word and it says IT IS NOT GOOD FOR THE MAN/WOMAN TO BE ALONE. And a bunch of other verses about our needs and desires.

Dear ###,
Your frustration is understood. However, you must understand that praying for God's Will is not being double-minded.

You are correct to say that it is God's Will for you to find a husband, not everyone has that desire and if the desire is in you, it must be from the Father. That said, it is just as easy to get caught up in that desire that we tend to fall prey to deceit and manipulations of the enemy if he brings someone who is not worthy of us. God wants us to marry but is particular about marrying His will. Marriage can be beautiful but it can also bring the greatest pain. Many that have been lonely before marriage and didn’t find good partners, say that they were lonelier and worse off married!
What am I saying? Every good and perfect gift comes from the Father and it adds no sorrow, when we pray for God's perfect will we are not saying His will is not marriage, we are petitioning for His will in the marriage. Sometimes, what God has for us does not appear as quickly as we want and the devil does try to intercept, so we must keep praying for only God's will as we pray for our heart's desires. So let your heart be at peace, enjoy your relationship with the Father as much as you can, trusting and knowing confidently that He answers and He will not delay because He also knows that hope deferred makes the heart sick.

I am not religious but I ALWAYS pray God's will because I have firsthand experience of how being outside His will even in things He desires for us brings deep pain. Don’t be frustrated, it’s a heartfelt prayer from a place of love. Peace.