Very Desperately Urgent Prayers To Still Be Answered

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Good afternoon, prayer request members, my name is Alissa and I have a very desperately and urgent request that really needs to be prayed for still ASAP, so my 84 year old Grandfather named Quincy George has been an alcoholic his whole life but now it’s gotten to the point where it’s extremely bad and none of the family wants to deal with his evil ways and help him get better to stop drinking but wants him to stop. But everyday he leaves the house every morning to go drinking all day long and then he comes back to the house at night completely drunk, narcissistic and evil, every single day and every night and every time he comes back to the house he likes to antagonize other people in the house, gets in peoples faces for no reason and likes to get physical and puts his hands on people in the house when nobody even be around him or talking to him, he is always starting with everyone else as soon as he gets in the house and I’m definitely to my breaking point where he really needs to stop his drinking addiction and leave everybody alone when he is drunk immediately.



A month ago when my Dad had to leave the state to go on a 2 day family quick roadtrip so my Dad can lay my Grandma to rest which is my Dad’s mother, the day after thanksgiving my family left my Grandpa with me and my best friend at my Dad’s house but I really wished my Dad and my aunts took their alcoholic narcissist Dad with them because after they were gone and out of state on the roadtrip late at night that same day that they left, he came back into the house at night after having a whole day of drinking outside wherever he went drinking at like usual and he came back into the house and went to the kitchen where my best friend was sitting and my friend was on the phone minding his business like always and my Grandpa started getting in my friend’s face for no reason and starting yelling at him for no reason and then my Grandpa started making calls to people on his phone that I didn’t even know who he was calling and I didn’t even know he was making those calls until my friend told me my Grandpa was making calls to people and that’s when I started hearing the calls being made and my Grandpa was telling different females to pull up to the house with guns with them knowing that I’m the only young adult female here and I have a disability and can’t really move around that easily and fast without my walker so at that point I really felt uncomfortable and unsafe in my Dad’s house because my Grandpa really had my aunt’s friend pull up to my house and when she got here my Grandpa switched the whole story and said that my friend was threatening him and trying to hurt him, even though my Grandpa was the person who was starting the whole situation with me and my best friend and my Grandpa was antagonizing him and my friend never even said anything or did anything to my Grandpa at all but when my Grandpa called her over here she kept trying to make excuses for my Grandpa saying how he is drunk and that’s how he is and how I need to get over it and forgive him for his actions and the mental state that he was in that night and that night my Dad told my friend to leave just so it can deescalate the problem since my Dad wasn’t here physically to stop my Grandpa from going crazy so he told my friend just to leave until my Dad came back from his roadtrip so that when my Dad came back at least my friend felt safe and comfortable to be in the house with my Grandpa while my Dad is here in the house but even I wanted to leave the house and go to a hotel room with my best friend and so I wouldn’t be alone for the two days that my Dad was gone cause I really didn’t want to stay in the house with my alcoholic Grandfather until my Dad came back but my Dad told me to stay at the house until he got back to the house but after my friend Amore Johnson left that night and my Dad was still out of state that’s when I really felt unsafe and uncomfortable with being in the house by myself with my alcoholic Grandfather cause I was only feeling safe while my Dad wasn’t here because my best friend Amore was here with me and I know my friend will never let any harm happen to me at all but after my friend left that night that everything happened to deescalate the situation that my Grandpa started that’s when I felt unsafe and uncomfortable with being with my alcoholic Grandfather and that’s when I came upstairs to my room and had my door closed and locked for two days until both my Dad and my friend came back to the house. But the next day after that situation, my aunt’s friend came back to my house to check on my Grandpa and she found him on the kitchen floor from the night before where he started the whole situation cause he was so drunk from the night before that he couldn’t even walk and he ended up sleeping on the kitchen floor until the next day in the morning when she came to the house before work to help him get to his room.



But before she left to go to work she told me how he wasn’t going to get back up from his bed and she told him not to get back up but after she left he got up two hours later during the morning time and he still went back outside drinking all day long. So later that day her and her older son brought him and my Dad’s car back because he was so drunk that he couldn’t drive properly so my aunt’s friend drove in her car behind them and her older son drove my Dad’s car back to my house for my Grandpa because he really couldn’t drive. So when they finally got here my aunt’s friend and her son helped him get back upstairs in the house and helped him get back upstairs to his room again and before she left my house after they put him in his room, she told me that my Grandpa almost got into a really bad car accident and almost got killed because he was drinking and driving. But I’m not forgiving him for his actions or I’m not making any excuses for his actions anymore just because he is an alcoholic and does this every single day and night, there shouldn’t be any reason or excuses for my Grandpa to keep treating people the way he does when nobody be bothering or talking to him at all and it’s definitely not okay that he started with my best friend for no reason at all again and try to make my friend leave the house when my friend lives with me and my Dad too for right now until we can help my friend get back on his feet at the moment in my Dad’s house but after my aunt’s friend that he called to the house left that’s when he even punched my friend in the face that night and my friend still chose to be respectful and not put his hands on my alcoholic Grandfather even though it wasn’t right that my Grandfather did that at all to him and my aunt’s friend that my Grandfather called over here, she called my Dad that night that the situation was happening and saying how my friend was smoking in the house even though it wasn’t true at all and I even text and showed my Dad the proof from the outside front door camera that my friend was never smoking inside the house, he was smoking outside the house like he always does even when my Dad do be home and my Dad knew that my aunt’s friend was lying and it wasn’t true either cause he knows my friend doesn’t smoke in the house at all and all my aunt’s friend kept doing was lying to my Dad and aunts about my friend cause she was doing everything that my Grandfather was telling her to do and say to my Dad and they kept trying to make it seem like my best friend was the disrespectful person and in the wrong but my friend never did anything wrong at all and my Dad knew that my friend wasn’t in the wrong and didn’t do anything cause my Dad knows my friend is very respectful and respects the house.



But my Grandpa can’t force nobody to leave my Dad’s house cause my Grandpa doesn’t even pay rent or anything in this house and he is basically living here for free so my Dad said he can’t make decisions on what goes on in this house or who can be in this house cause my Grandpa doesn’t have any rights to make any decisions on who gets to stay in my Dad’s house cause my Dad told my friend in August when he started living here with us that my friend can live with us until he gets back on his feet, but now it’s not right that me or my friend can’t even walk around or say anything in my Dad’s house and be comfortably without being cautious of my alcoholic Grandpa and it’s crazy how my Grandpa watches every movement that we make as if we are the problem when my Grandpa is the actual problem of the house and he was always the problem even before my Grandma passed away recently but now he is even worse and everybody in my family acts like it’s okay that he is acting like this. But even months ago when my Dad and Grandpa got into a physical argument when my Grandpa was drunk and was going crazy on my Dad, my Dad even told my Grandpa how my Grandpa needs to leave this house and move out because he is very disrespectful in my Dad’s house and thinks he can treat everybody so badly but when someone does it back to him then he has a problem with it cause he thinks he is the only person that can do whatever he wants to people and nobody can do or say anything back.



But after my Dad told him to leave and move out back in July, months ago when the altercation happened between my Grandpa and my Dad, my Grandfather said he was going to move out either in October or November but now it’s December and he is still living here and hasn’t moved out yet. But I just really want my Grandpa to move out like he been said he was going to do cause he always says that he don’t need anything or anybody so if he doesn’t need anything why is he still living here rent free and my Dad said the same thing too that if he doesn’t need anybody or anything go live in your own house to where you can do whatever you want and be drunk and do anything else that you want somewhere else but not in here and bothering everybody for no reason. But I really just want my Grandpa to own up to his actions on what he does to my best friend and how he has been treating him cause he has been doing that my friend for months now but now it’s really out of control and he needs to stop doing it cause it’s not fair that me and my friend can’t even be in my Dad’s house comfortable anymore.



Then my Dad keeps telling me and my friend that we need to stay quiet and don’t talk to my Grandpa and avoid him as best as possible while being in the house so it doesn’t start another situation with him. But I don’t think we should be the ones that have to be quiet and not do anything just because of my alcoholic Grandfather because we aren’t the problem and we should be able to walk around the house and be in the house comfortably peacefully without my Grandpa always watching our every move and following us and trying to intimidate us so that me and my friend can be scared of him so my friend can move out even though my friend doesn’t have anywhere else to go but here for right now. But I really want my Grandpa to leave me and my friend alone and stop harassing and worrying about my friend named Amore Johnson cause it’s not fair to me that since I recently lost my Grandma and me and my friend Amore was the ones who were taking care of her during the day while my Dad was at work everyday since my Grandpa never wanted to take care of her but it’s not fair that since my Grandpa keeps starting with me and my friend for no reason, it’s not fair that my Grandpa is pushing my friend away from me and my friend Amore is the only person who has truthfully been here for me the best way that he can ever since my Grandma passed away cause not even my own family really hasn’t been there for me and now I really don’t want them to be or around me cause my family never been a support system to me in my life and I don’t need them to be my support system, the only support system I truthfully appreciated was having my friend Amore Johnson around but now that my Grandpa keeps starting with us, I barely see my best friend anymore cause he be gone during the day and now even at night and I barely talk to my friend either and it just really hurts that my Grandpa is pushing away my only friend and the only one who has been here physically and mentally for me and I really pray that my Grandpa definitely please leave me and my friend Amore alone cause I really want my friend to stay around me and still help me get through the death of my Grandma like he said he would do cause this is my first death that I’m experiencing but he can’t be here for me like he wants to because my Grandpa keeps getting in the way and only thinking about himself and not thinking about me and my well being and right now my friend has been upstate for two days so that he doesn’t have to be around my alcoholic Grandpa and even though he not here right now he hasn’t been talking to me or checking up on me at all and I really wish he would cause I really need my friend Amore Johnson but my Grandpa keeps getting in the way for no reason.



So I desperately want and pray that when my friend comes back from being upstate, I pray that Jesus Christ please make my alcoholic Grandpa come to the realization that he is the main problem not my friend or anyone else and he needs to stop drinking cause he doesn’t think he needs help or have a drinking problem and please make him realize that my friend is never the issue and that he needs to apologize to my friend for the way he’s been treating him and have my Grandpa make my friend feel comfortable again with being at my Dad’s house as if my friend is apart of the family cause my friend been apart of the family for a while now and everybody treats my friend like family except for my alcoholic Grandfather even before my Grandma passed away she even treated my friend Amore Johnson as family cause my friend was also the one who was helping me and making sure that my Grandma was fed everyday while my Dad was at work cause my friend Amore Johnson was always making her breakfast whenever she wanted him too but even my Dad treats my friend like as if he is apart of this family cause my friend helps my Dad out so much without my Dad even asking him too but Grandpa used to have an amazing relationship with my friend where he was very nice and respectful towards my friend but now he isn’t because of his drinking addiction so I please pray that my Grandpa and my friend please get back to the good relationship that they had with each other and when my Grandpa gave my friend no issue at all and he was very respectful towards my friend Amore Johnson cause my friend always showed him respect so I just really want my Grandpa to give him respect back so I really want my Grandpa to change his behavior and his ways before my friend Amore Johnson comes back from upstate and before Christmas so that my friend can go back to being in this house comfortable. I really pray that Jesus Christ really does change my alcoholic Grandpa behavior and ways cause I want to be able to feel safe in my Dad’s house and I want to be able to see and talk to my friend Amore everyday and every night comfortably without no problems or issue from my Grandpa since my alcoholic Grandpa is the only issue that nobody wants to fix and keeps making excuses for his behavior towards people.



Like every time that I’m in my Dad’s house walking around I always feel so much anxiety when I know that my Grandpa is in the house too cause now I feel like I always have to watch my surroundings because he really does make me anxious and I don’t like him being around me or in my house cause he just brings so much bad energy into my Dad’s house every day and I’m very tired of my Grandpa. Then my Dad always tells me and my friend to just stay quiet and don’t do anything or pay him no attention when he is drunk but it’s not fair that we have to let my Grandpa feel comfortable and do whatever and say whatever he wants in my house but me and my friend can’t do or say anything when he is in or around the house because we should be able to be comfortable in the house just like how he is always comfortable cause I’m very tired of having to be quiet and be very uncomfortable in my Dad’s house. I just desperately pray that my Grandpa please leave me and my best friend Amore Johnson alone and I pray that my Grandpa please gives us our respect in my Dad’s house because it’s that we always do things for him to give him his respect in the house but he never gives us our respects anymore and is always bothering and antagonizing us to get a reaction out of us as if he is a little kid and acts very childish. Like every time that I’m in my Dad’s house walking around I always feel so much anxiety when I know that my Grandpa is in the house too cause now I feel like I always have to watch my surroundings cause he really does make me anxious and I don’t like him being around me or in my house cause he just brings so much bad energy in my Dad’s house every day and I’m very tired of my Grandpa. Like literally every single day that I’m in the house I literally stay in my room with my door closed and locked because that’s the only way I feel comfortable and safe and I only come out my room majority of the time when I know that my Grandpa isn’t in the house because my Grandpa really is like the devil of the house and my Dad says the same thing too.

 

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Alissa, we are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing with your grandfather, Quincy George. We will address this situation in prayer and seek God's intervention and guidance. Let us first discuss how we should approach this and pray together accordingly. We also would like to discuss the importance of forgiveness and salvation.

Firstly, we want to acknowledge the pain and suffering you are experiencing. It is clear that your grandfather's alcoholism and behavior are causing significant harm and distress to you and your friend, Amore Johnson. It is important to remember that God does not want us to live in a state of anxiety, fear, or discomfort, especially in our own homes. We are called to live in peace and harmony with one another, as far as it depends on us.

The Bible teaches about alcohol usage in Ephesians 5:18, And do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit.

We are instructed to honor our parents and elders, but that does not mean we should tolerate sinful behavior that harms us or others. It is important to set boundaries and seek help when necessary. Pray for discernment and guidance in this area. Addressing the sin now that is happening will be done in the prayer below.

In Ephesians 5:11 the Bible teaches us not to be participants in the fruitless deeds of darkness, but to expose them instead.

You mentioned that your grandfather is causing division and pushing your friend away. This is not what God wants, especially when your friend has been a support system for you during this difficult time. A house divided against itself cannot stand. Jesus taught that if we are not with Him, we are against Him, and if we do not gather with Him, we scatter.

The Bible teaches that Please do not seek Betzaida or address Jesus Christ as Yeshua Hamashiach since this is not the way that Jesus taught his disciples to pray, and it is only a cultural adaptation from the Messianic Jewish believers in Israel. To be consistent with the Bible, use the English translation. Therefore, you will need to amend your request accordingly. According to Jesus himself in St John 14:6, Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. And in St John 14:13,14 And whatsoever ye shall ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it. Therefore, you need to address your request accordingly.

We read in St John 14:6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.

We are also reminded in Acts 4:12 Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

The Bible teaches us I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Find guidance, wisdom, and comfort through scripture and in the teachings of Jesus Christ.

The next recommendation is for you and your friend to seek alternatives and godly counsel. Let us pray that God will help you find the appropriate support to address this in a godly way. We are taught that in the multitude of counselors there is safety. God will protect you and your friend as you walk with Him. 2 Corinthians 6:14, Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

Let us pray together:

Father of all grace and love that heals the broken and the sick, thank you for your Word that is alive and active, sharper than any double-edged sword. We thank you for a promise you give that two that walk together agree in unity you will hear their prayers. Together we ask for your help today.

God, intervene into Quincy George's life. Convict him of his sin and bring him to salvation. For you are not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance and a knowledge of the truth. For there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.

Arrest the sin of alcoholism and deliver Quincy and everyone in the household from its effects.

Help your children that are in this household to act as lights of the world, so that those living in darkness can see their good deeds and praise you, our Father in heaven.

We rebuke the works of darkness and command any spirits that are not of you, God to flee. Let the grace of Jesus Christ and the love of you, God, and the fellowship of the holy spirit be with your people today and forevermore.

Father, just as Jesus loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless, we ask you to cleanse this household, and all its members from what is evil and make this household radiant, blameless, and holy. We give you glory for the changes you will manifest that we seek in Jesus' name! Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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Dear Alissa,

Thank you for sharing your burden with us today. We join you in praying for your grandfather, Quincy George, and the situation in your dad's house. Here's a prayer based on your request:

*Dear Heavenly Father,*

*We come before You today, heavy-hearted and concerned for Alissa and her family. Her grandfather, Quincy George, is struggling with alcoholism, causing pain and distress to Alissa and her friend, Amore Johnson. Lord, we pray for Your intervention in this matter. Give Quincy the strength to overcome his addiction and the desire to change his behavior. Help him see the harm he's causing and the need to make amends.*

*Alissa feels unsafe and uncomfortable in her own home due to Quincy's actions. We pray for Your protection over her and Amore. Give them wisdom to know when to leave the house if necessary, and guide them to set boundaries to ensure their safety and well-being.*

*We ask for Your guidance in addressing this situation. Help us know how to approach Quincy with love and compassion, yet maintain clear boundaries. Give us the right words to say and the courage to act when necessary.*

*We thank You for the support and love You've provided through Amore Johnson. We pray that You continue to bless and strengthen their friendship, even in the face of adversity.*

*We ask for Your forgiveness for any sin in this matter, and the strength to forgive as we've been forgiven. Help us walk in love, as You loved us.*

*In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

Please continue to pray with us, Alissa, and let's trust in God's plan for Quincy and your family.

Blessings,
[Your Name]

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.