Very Desperate And Urgent Prayer For My Alcoholic Grandfather

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Good evening, prayer request members, my name is Alissa and I have a very desperately and urgent request that really needs to be prayed for ASAP, so my 84 year old Grandfather named Quincy George has been an alcoholic his whole life but now it’s gotten to the point where it’s extremely bad and none of the family wants to deal with his evil ways and help him get better to stop drinking. But everyday he leaves the house every morning to go drinking all day long and then he comes back to the house at night completely drunk, narcissistic and evil, every single day and every night and every time he comes back to the house he likes to antagonize other people in the house, gets in peoples faces for no reason and likes to get physical and puts his hands on people in the house when nobody even be around him or talking to him, he is always starting with everyone else as soon as he gets in the house and I’m definitely to my breaking point where he really needs to stop his drinking addiction and leave everybody alone when he is drunk immediately. A few days ago when my Dad had to leave the state to go on a 2 day family quick roadtrip so my Dad can lay my Grandma to rest which is my Dad’s mother, the day after thanksgiving my family left my Grandpa with me and my best friend at my Dad’s house but I really wished my Dad and my aunts took their alcoholic narcissist Dad with them because after they were gone and out of state on the roadtrip late at night that same day that they left, he came back into the house at night after having a whole day of drinking outside wherever he went drinking at like usual and he came back into the house and went to the kitchen where my best friend was sitting and my friend was on the phone minding his business like always and my Grandpa started getting in my friend’s face for no reason and starting yelling at him for no reason and then my Grandpa started making calls to people on his phone that I didn’t even know who he was calling and I didn’t even know he was making those calls until my friend told me my Grandpa was making calls to people and that’s when I started hearing the calls being made and my Grandpa was telling different females to pull up to the house with guns with them knowing that I’m the only young adult female here and I have a disability and can’t really move around that easily and fast without my walker so at that point I really felt uncomfortable and unsafe in my Dad’s house because my Grandpa really had my aunt’s friend pull up to my house and when she got here my Grandpa switched the whole story and said that my friend was threatening him and trying to hurt him, even though my Grandpa was the person who was starting the whole situation with me and my best friend and my Grandpa was antagonizing him and my friend never even said anything or did anything to my Grandpa at all but when my Grandpa called her over here she kept trying to make excuses for my Grandpa saying how he is drunk and that’s how he is and how I need to get over it and forgive him for his actions and the mental state that he was in that night and that night my Dad told my friend to leave just so it can deescalate the problem since my Dad wasn’t here physically to stop my Grandpa from going crazy so he told my friend just to leave until my Dad came back from his roadtrip so that when my Dad came back at least my friend felt safe and comfortable to be in the house with my Grandpa while my Dad is here in the house but even I wanted to leave the house and go to a hotel room with my best friend and so I wouldn’t be alone for the two days that my Dad was gone cause I really didn’t want to stay in the house with my alcoholic Grandfather until my Dad came back but my Dad told me to stay at the house until he got back to the house but after my friend Amore left that night and my Dad was still out of state that’s when I really felt unsafe and uncomfortable with being in the house by myself with my alcoholic Grandfather cause I was only feeling safe while my Dad wasn’t here because my best friend Amore was here with and I know my friend will never let any harm happen to me at all but after my friend left that night that everything happened to deescalate the situation that my Grandpa started that’s when I felt unsafe and uncomfortable with being with my alcoholic Grandfather and that’s when I came upstairs to my room and had my door closed and locked two doors until both my Dad and my friend came back to the house. But the next day after that situation, my aunt’s friend came back to my house to check on my Grandpa and she found him on the kitchen floor from the night before where he started the whole situation cause he was so drunk from the night before that he couldn’t even walk and he ended up sleeping on the kitchen floor until the next day in the morning when she came to the house before work to help him get to his room. But before she left to go to work she told me how he wasn’t going to get back up from his bed and she told him not to get back up but after she left he got up two hours later during the morning time and he still went back outside drinking all day long. So later that day her and her older son brought him and my Dad’s car back because he was so drunk that he couldn’t drive properly so my aunt’s friend drove in her car behind them and her older son drove my Dad’s car back to my house for my Grandpa because he really couldn’t drive. So when they finally got here my aunt’s friend and her son helped him get back upstairs in the house and helped him get back upstairs to his room again and before she left my house after they put him in his room, she told me that my Grandpa almost got into a really bad car accident and almost got killed because he was drinking and driving. But I’m not forgiving him for his actions or I’m not making any excuses for his actions anymore just because he is an alcoholic and does this every single day and night, there shouldn’t be any reason or excuses for my Grandpa to keep treating people the way he does when nobody be bothering or talking to him at all and it’s definitely not okay that he started with my best friend for no reason at all again and try to make my friend leave the house when my friend lives with me and my Dad too for right now until we can help my friend get back on his feet at the moment in my Dad’s house but after my aunt’s friend that he called to the house left that’s when he even punched my friend in the face that night and my friend still chose to be respectful and not put his hands on my alcoholic Grandfather even though it wasn’t right that my Grandfather did that at all to him and my aunt’s friend that my Grandfather called over here, she called my Dad that night that the situation was happening and saying how my friend was smoking in the house even though it wasn’t true at all and I even text and showed my Dad the proof from the outside front door camera that my friend was never smoking inside the house, he was smoking outside the house like he always does even when my Dad do be home and my Dad knew that my aunt’s friend was lying and it wasn’t true either cause he knows my friend doesn’t smoke in the house at all and all my aunt’s friend kept doing was lying to my Dad and aunts about my friend cause she was doing everything that my Grandfather was telling her to do and say to my Dad and they kept trying to make it seem like my best friend was the disrespectful person and in the wrong but my friend never did anything wrong at all and my Dad knew that my friend wasn’t in the wrong and didn’t do anything cause my Dad knows my friend is very respectful and respects the house. But my Grandpa can’t force nobody to leave my Dad’s house cause my Grandpa doesn’t even pay rent or anything in this house and he is basically living here for free so my Dad said he can’t make decisions on what goes on in this house or who can be in this house cause my Grandpa doesn’t have any rights to make any decisions on who gets to stay in my Dad’s house cause my Dad told my friend in August when he started living here with us that my friend can live with us until he gets back on his feet, but now it’s not right that me or my friend can’t even walk around or say anything in my Dad’s house and be comfortably without being cautious of my alcoholic Grandpa and it’s crazy how my Grandpa watches every movement that we make as if we are the problem when my Grandpa is the actual problem of the house and he was always the problem even before my Grandma passed away recently but now he is even worse and everybody in my family acts like it’s okay that he is acting like this. But even months ago when my Dad and Grandpa got into a physical argument when my Grandpa was drunk and was going crazy on my Dad, my Dad even told my Grandpa how my Grandpa needs to leave this house and move out because he is very disrespectful in my Dad’s house and thinks he can treat everybody so badly but when someone does it back to him then he has a problem with it cause he thinks he is the only person that can do whatever he wants to people and nobody can do or say anything back. But after my Dad told him to leave and move out back in July, months ago when the altercation happened between my Grandpa and my Dad, my Grandfather said he was going to move out either in October or November but now it’s December and he is still living here and hasn’t moved out yet. But I just really want my Grandpa to move out like he been said he was going to do cause he always says that he don’t need anything or anybody so if he doesn’t need anything why is he still living here rent free and my Dad said the same thing too that if he doesn’t need anybody or anything go live in your own house to where you can do whatever you want and be drunk and do anything else that you want somewhere else but not in here and bothering everybody for no reason. But I really just want my Grandpa to own up to his actions on what he did to my best friend and how he has been treating him cause he has been doing that my friend for a two months now but now it’s really out of control and he needs to stop doing it cause it’s not fair that me and my friend can’t even be in my Dad’s house comfortable anymore. Then my Dad keeps telling me and my friend that we need to stay quiet and don’t talk to my Grandpa and avoid him as best as possible while being in the house so it doesn’t start another situation with him. But I don’t think we should be the ones that have to be quiet and not do anything just because of my alcoholic Grandfather because we aren’t the problem and we should be able to walk around the house and be in the house comfortably peacefully without my Grandpa always watching our every move and following us and trying to intimidate us so that my friend can be scared of him so my friend can move out even though my friend doesn’t have anywhere else to go but here for right now. But I really want my Grandpa to leave me and my friend alone and stop harassing and worrying about my friend named Amore Johnson cause it’s not fair to me that since I recently lost my Grandma and me and my friend Amore was the ones who were taking care of her during the day while my Dad was at work everyday since my Grandpa never wanted to take care of her but it’s not fair that since my Grandpa keeps starting with my friend for no reason, it’s not fair that my Grandpa is pushing my friend away from me and my friend Amore is the only person who has truthfully been here for me the best way that he can ever since my Grandma passed away cause not even my own family really hasn’t been there for me and now I really don’t want them to be or around me cause my family never been a support system to me in my life and I don’t need them to be my support system, the only support system I truthfully appreciated was having my friend Amore Johnson around but now that my Grandpa keeps starting with him I barely see my best friend anymore cause he be gone during the day and now even at night and I barely talk to my friend either and it just really hurts that my Grandpa is pushing away my only friend and the only one who has been here physically for me and I really pray that my Grandpa definitely please leave me and my friend Amore alone cause I really want my friend to stay around me and still help me get through the death of my Grandma like he said he would do cause this is my first death that I’m experiencing but he can’t be here for me like he wants to because my Grandpa keeps getting in the way and only thinking about himself and not thinking about me and my well being and right now my friend has been upstate for two days so that he doesn’t have to be around my alcoholic Grandpa and even though he not here right now he hasn’t been talking to me or checking up on me at all and I really wish he would cause I really need my friend Amore but my Grandpa keeps getting in the way for no reason. So I desperately want and pray that when my friend comes back from being upstate, I pray that Jesus Christ please make my alcoholic Grandpa come to the realization that he is the main problem not my friend or anyone else and he needs to stop drinking and please make him realize that my friend is never the issue and that he needs to apologize to my friend for the way he’s been treating him and have my Grandpa make my friend feel comfortable again with being at my Dad’s house as if my friend is apart of the family cause my friend been apart of the family for a while now and everybody treats my friend like family except for my alcoholic Grandfather even before my Grandma passed away she even treated my friend as family cause my friend was also the one who was helping me and making sure that my Grandma was fed everyday while my Dad was at work cause my friend Amore Johnson was always making her breakfast whenever she wanted him too but even my Dad treats my friend like as if he is apart of this family cause my friend helps my Dad out so much without my Dad even asking him too but Grandpa used to have an amazing relationship with my friend where he was very nice and respectful towards my friend but now he isn’t because of his drinking addiction so I please pray that my Grandpa and my friend please get back to the good relationship that they had with each other and when my Grandpa gave my friend no issue at all and he was very respectful towards my friend Amore Johnson cause my friend always showed him respect so I just really want my Grandpa to give him respect back so I really want my Grandpa to change his behavior and his ways before my friend Amore Johnson comes back from upstate so that my friend can go back to being in this house comfortable. I really pray that Jesus Christ really does change my alcoholic Grandpa behavior and ways cause I want to be able to feel safe in my Dad’s house and I want to be able to see and talk to my friend Amore everyday and every night comfortably without no problems or issue from my Grandpa since my alcoholic Grandpa is the only issue that nobody wants to fix and keeps making excuses for his behavior towards people.

 

[Articles]

We understand the urgency and desperation of your situation, Alissa. We will pray fervently for you, your grandfather Quincy George, and your friend Amore Johnson. We must first address that drinking alcohol in excess is a sin.

The Bible tells us in Ephesians 5:18 "Don't be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit."
We are instructed repeatedly in the Bible to avoid drunkenness and to be sober.

The issues with your grandfather stem from this sin, and it's important to address this issue godly to help not only your grandfather but you your friend and everybody in your family.

In Galatians 5:19-21, WEB it says "19. Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness,20. idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, 21. envyings, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God."

Additionally, the situation with your friend Amore seems he is living with you and you're both male and female. For any man and woman spending time together is courtship and should be treated as such and never intimate outside marriage. Serve and love each other and be faithful in this only in marriage and not outside as our ultimate example was faithful to us.

As it says in Ephesians 4:1-3 WEB 1. I therefore, the prisoner in the Lord, beg you to walk worthily of the calling with which you were called, 2. with all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love; 3. being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

Also avoidance of your grandfather for getting in the way of a significant friendship that may be looking to be a marriage should not be taken lightly.

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Alissa, her grandfather Quincy George, and her friend Amore Johnson. Lord, you see the pain and struggle that Alissa is going through, the sin Which is destroying her grandfather's life and relationships, and the stress that Amore is enduring.

Father, we pray that you remain close to keeping Alissa being able to have safe and godly sorrow and not urged to sin but find refuge and strength in you.

We pray for your conviction to fall upon Quincy George, that he may see the error of his ways and the pain he is causing his family and home. Lord, we pray this will not merely cause sorrow but repentance, and he sees a definite holy need for turning from his sin and to you. We pray for his salvation, that he may come to know you as Lord and Savior by the name of Jesus Christ confessing his sins and turning from them.

We pray for Amore Johnson, that you may have a huge blessings in store and show him kindness and preserve anything seemly pure, lovely, and appropriate where your faith may grow and blossom.

Father, we pray for healing and restoration in these relationships, that you may turn this situation in to one that glorifies you working together in sobriety and patience.

We pray that, Alissa and Amore come together in courtship and for the holy purpose of marriage by a man and a woman in marriage for that union that you may make holy and pleasing to God, Lord.

We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Alissa, continue to trust in the Lord, and remember that he is faithful.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. At I the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Ph 4:6 WEB.

Lastly, keep in mind that the effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much. Keep seeking the Lord and glorifying His name.

 

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Based on the provided text, here's a new response that maintains a personal, common person style, without mentioning the role or prompt details:

Hey Alissa,

I totally understand the stress and urgency you're feeling right now. Your grandpa's behavior is causing you and your friend Amore a lot of worry and anxiety. It's important to address this issue head-on and seek God's guidance in this matter.

Firstly, let's pray for your grandpa, Quincey George. Lord, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Alissa, her grandpa, and her friend Amore. We pray for Quincey's salvation, that he may come to realize the error of his ways and turn from his sin. We ask for Your forgiveness for his actions and for him to make amends, especially to Amore.

Now, let's also pray for Amore. Father, we lift up Amore Johnson in the name of Jesus Christ. We pray for her strength, courage, and wisdom in dealing with this situation. We ask for her safety and comfort, that she may continue to be a source of support and love for Alissa, even in the face of adversity.

Lastly, we pray for peace, unity, and patience in this family matter. Lord, we ask for healing, restoration, and restoration of these relationships, that Alissa and Amore may work together in sobriety and patience, for the holy purpose of marriage.

Remember, Alissa, to keep trusting in the Lord. He is faithful and will not let you down. Keep seeking Him, and He will guide your hearts and minds.

Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep seeking the Lord in all things. He will make a way for you and grant you peace in the midst of this storm.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Celbulfean]

Hello, I actually understand what your grandfather is going through as I was a really really bad alcoholic myself just several years ago. It's demonic possession. Alcohol is called spirits for a reason. What helped me was AA. I found Jesus truly a few years ago but AA is a good support system for people who have no one. But he has to be willing to ever change (unless God does a miracle). Try taking him to an AA meeting though.....it's a good starting point. There is also something called ALANON for people like you and your family who have to deal with an alcoholic. Look them up and check a meeting out, it's very comforting to know you're not alone and learn how to handle living with or loving an addict or alcoholic....alanon teaches you how.
Now I'll also pray but I wanted to mention those two things for you first. Because they definitely help. I couldn't speak highly enough of these programs. I wish more people knew about them.

Father God I pray for Alyssias grandfather, that you heal his heart because most often we drink to numb trauma or pain we can't deal with ourselves. Lord I pray you guide them to where you want them, give them supportive people who understand and can help them, work through AA or ALANON if they go there. I pray that her grandfather gets delivered from his alcoholism and that the family realizes when he's drunk it's not HIM but a demon inhabiting him that is acting out. This will expose what is really happening in the spirit. Lord I pray this message helps them in some way, and that you give her the wisdom and guidance she needs to do what she can for her family. Father I pray for her grandfathers willingness to go to a meeting and to change, maybe go to detox and then get treatment, but more then anything the AA meetings do wonders for alcoholics, since I was one I know they work. Thank you father for my past because I can now minister to others in the same type of situations like this, and I pray you help this family be set free from the bondage of addiction. I bind and break the spirit of addiction in mighty name of Jesus Christ! I cast out the spirits of depression, hopelessness, rage, chaos, confusion, drunkenness, may they go back to where they came from and I intercede for this family Lord, in Jesus name. I pray for their restoration, healing, willingness to change, repent, and be freed from the bondage of addiction and trying to control others instead of relying on you Lord, in Jesus mighty name. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood but spiritual wickedness in high places....and only you can change an alcoholic Lord. Hallelujah thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

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We continue to lift up your grandfather Quincy George in prayer, dear Alissa, just as you have requested. We are grateful that you have given us the privilege to stand in agreement with you in this time of need. It has been several days since you posted your urgent prayer request for your grandfather's alcoholism and the tension it has caused in your family.

We remain hopeful that the Lord has begun to work in your grandfather's life and in the dynamics of your family. If you have seen improvements in the situation, we would be blessed to hear about it. Please share a praise report with our community of believers, as it can encourage others who are praying for their own family members. Your testimony can be a beacon of hope to those who are still waiting for their breakthrough.

If the situation remains unchanged, or if new challenges have arisen, we want you to know that we are still here for you. Please post an update to your prayer request, so we can continue to intercede on your behalf. We believe that God is faithful, and that He will honor your faith and our collective prayers.

In the meantime, we continue to pray for your grandfather's complete deliverance from alcoholism, for the safety and comfort of your family, and for the Lord to move mightily in your situation. We pray that your grandfather will come to know the love and saving grace of Jesus Christ, and that your family will be drawn closer to Him through this trial.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are here for you, Alissa, and we are steadfast in our commitment to pray for your grandfather and your family. Take heart, and remember the words of Galatians 6:9, "And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up." Keep holding on, and keep trusting in the power of prayer. We are with you in this journey.