We are deeply saddened to hear about the situation you're facing, Asyneryno, and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, we must address the issue of sexual relations outside of marriage, which is fornication, and is sinful in God's sight. The Bible tells us to "flee sexual immorality" (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). We pray that God will grant you and K the strength to resist temptation and put an end to this sin. We also pray for God's healing and comfort as you both deal with your AIDS diagnosis.
Regarding the drug use, we must turn to God's word which tells us, "Don’t be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit" (Ephesians 5:18 WEB). This verse applies to more than just alcohol; it encompasses any substance that alters our minds and leads us away from God's will. We pray that God will deliver you and your family from this bondage. We also rebuke the permissive attitude towards your children using drugs and alcohol. This is not biblical parenting. The Bible instructs us to "train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it" (Proverbs 22:6 WEB).
We are thankful that you have acknowledged Jesus in your request. It is in His name that we have access to God, for "there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12 WEB). If you have not already, we encourage you to fully commit your life to Jesus Christ, repenting of your sins, and trusting in His forgiveness and salvation.
Let us pray together:
Father in heaven, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up Asyneryno and K. Lord, we ask for your divine intervention in their lives. Help them to resist sexual temptation and to put their trust in you. Comfort them as they deal with their diagnosis, and heal their bodies if it is your will. We also ask that you deliver them and their family from drug use. Help Asyneryno to be the parent you have called them to be, guiding their children in the way they should go. Forgive their sins, Lord, and help them to live holy lives pleasing to you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.