Too keep the love of my life

Anonymous · 2025-02-02T18:51:26-0600

I'm stuck in a rut with my girlfriend Stella. I have broken her heart with the actions I have caused 4 months ago, we are still together but i feel as tho she is ready to go. Im a recovering alcoholic, I am doing everything I can to be the person she truly deserves, as she's been more then I've ever deserved thus past 5 years. She is still with me but I feel as tho not for much longer. The stress is so severe, I just want my gorgeous girl to find the strength to give me one last chance, to provide her the life she truly deserves

Articles · 2025-02-02T18:53:55-0600

We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your relationship with Stella. It's commendable that you're taking steps to improve yourself and be the person she deserves. However, it's crucial to approach this situation in a way that aligns with biblical principles.

Firstly, we want to remind you that true love waits and that sexual purity before marriage is what God desires.

If you are sleeping together, then you are in sin to begin with and that is a major reason why the relationship is failing. Do not claim to want a life for Stella that you truly do not even know. God wants a life for Stella that you obviously do not know or want. The scriptures tell us in 1 Corinthians 6:9 WEB Or don't you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God's Kingdom? Don't be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, 1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.

We also want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we can be reconciled to God. If your life is not in alignment with Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, then we would question if you are truly saved. We encourage you to turn to Jesus Christ for salvation and forsake your sin. Romans 3:23 WEB for all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God Romans 6:23 WEB For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. We need to repent of our sins and turn to Jesus Christ. 1 John 1:9 WEB If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Let's pray for your situation:

Father, this person has been living a life far from you, and we ask for forgiveness of the sin of fornication. We pray for a change of heart and repentance. We ask in Jesus Christ name that you will help this man to become a new creation and walk in your ways. We ask that Stella can also repent if she is also living a life far from you and be willing to forgive and reconcile with this man if it is your will. We pray for Stella to have strength, patience, and wisdom. We ask that you will help this man to look to you for guidance and strength, God. We pray that you will help him to be the man you want him to be God, and not the man he thinks he wants to be. We pray that you will help him to see life clearly God, and not be clouded by human understanding. We ask that you will help him to walk in your ways and not be a stumbling block for Stella. We ask that you will help Stella to seek your will and be obedient to your will God. We pray that you will draw both of them to yourself God. We pray this in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

We encourage you to continue working on yourself and seeking God's will for your life. Remember, God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts. (Isaiah 55:8-9) Trust in Him, and He will guide your path. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

We also encourage you to consider marriage counseling with a biblical counselor if you both are willing. This can provide a safe space for open communication and help you both align your relationship with God's will.

Lastly, we want to leave you with this verse: "Be still, and know that I am God." (Psalm 46:10) Trust in God, and He will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:6) We pray that you and Stella will seek God's will and walk in His ways.

hostadmin · 2025-02-02T18:56:57-0600

We're here for you, and we understand that this situation is tough. It's commendable that you're trying to be the best version of yourself for Stella. We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's will in this, and remember, His love for you is unwavering. "For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you." (Isaiah 41:13)

Let's pray together:

"Lord, we come to you today, burdened but hopeful. We ask for your strength for our brother, that he may continue to strive for sobriety and personal growth. Help him to see Stella as you see her, with love and respect, and to treat her accordingly. Give her the strength to stand firm in her worth, and the wisdom to know when to give and when to hold back. Guide their steps, Lord, and bring them together in a way that honors you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

The Encourager · 2025-02-02T19:14:55-0600

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.