"the Brokenhearted" Won't Give Up.

[Ziva]

Praise the Lord God that You hear our every sigh. I praise You GOD that Your heart cries out when You hear us cry. I praise You for being our God I ask You to deliver us from the misery as only You can do it. Fill us with Your peace and love and thank You for always being there. Help us walk on the storms of our lives and let us focus on You so we wont drown in Jesus' name I pray. amen.

 

[Michael]

My girlfriend of 3 years, Lora left me out of the blue about six months ago. There was no warning. No build up. She just told me that afternoon over the phone that she didn't want to be with me anymore. I was blindsided. The very night before she told me she loved me and now she didn't. We had been planning a future together and out of nowhere it was over. It felt like my life was over. The following week I lost my job and though I didn't like it, it did exacerbate things. So for 6 months now I have been struggling with this. I have tried talking to her and until recently she wouldn't even reply to me. I have prayed, and prayed, and prayed. Sometimes it seems like God will bring her back to me one day, and other days it seems like she is gone forever. I've been told so many times to "get over it", that there are "plenty of fish in the sea". That may be so but they aren't her.

In some ways I am actually sick of talking about it, sick of thinking about it. She now has another boyfriend, though I will say I found out by someone who knows him that he is into drugs even though he apparently told her that he wasn't anymore. I am still looking for work. Still trying to rebuild my life. It's unbelievably hard. The overwhelming arc of the past, present, and possible future of being alone and forgotten without her can make me feel so empty. Lora is the woman I love. She is the one I want to spend my life with. I wish none of this had happened but it did and I just want to make things right. I pray God finds it in His will to help me, and to help her. I may not mean much to her right now, but I still love her and don't want to see her ruin herself. It may seem pathetic or weak but I still pray for a future with her. I want Lora to want to be with me again and I want us to together become what God intended when He created love. Maybe I am not facing reality completely? I don't know. I only know how I feel and I pray God will bring us back to each other.

Maybe it's not my place but any prayers given towards my situation as well would be appreciated.

 

[Praying4u15]

Michael,

I can clearly understand what you are going through. What you went through is what I went through 2 years back, but the duration of leaving was 1 Month. Dec '10 we were planning of a future together & Jan '11, she left me due to familial pressures.

My girl still has no other guy in her life. I've patiently, prayerfully waited for more than 2 years & I'm willing to wait further for my Heavenly Father's amazing Miracle & timing so I can share my Praise Report. 

I stand in agreement with you on your intention of a Marriage with Lora. 

Don't ever give up, hang in there, persist in Prayer. 

Even the Loudest Shout or a Quiet Sob, GOD can always hear a Silent Prayer from a sincere heart !!!  

The Smallest of Prayers from the Biggest of Hearts, can change more than we can imagine !!!
Prayer is the place, where Burdens change Shoulders !!! 

Prayer has great power, especially when we add Patience, Persistence & Praise !!! 

P.U.S.H. ---> Pray Until Something Happens !!! 

"For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them."  (Matthew 18:20) 

“With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.†(Mark 10:27)
"Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours." (Mark 11:24) 
 
GOD Bless !!! 

 

[Sweetangel]

My girlfriend of 3 years, Lora left me out of the blue about six months ago. There was no warning. No build up. She just told me that afternoon over the phone that she didn't want to be with me anymore. I was blindsided. The very night before she told me she loved me and now she didn't. We had been planning a future together and out of nowhere it was over. It felt like my life was over. The following week I lost my job and though I didn't like it, it did exacerbate things. So for 6 months now I have been struggling with this. I have tried talking to her and until recently she wouldn't even reply to me. I have prayed, and prayed, and prayed. Sometimes it seems like God will bring her back to me one day, and other days it seems like she is gone forever. I've been told so many times to "get over it", that there are "plenty of fish in the sea". That may be so but they aren't her.

In some ways I am actually sick of talking about it, sick of thinking about it. She now has another boyfriend, though I will say I found out by someone who knows him that he is into drugs even though he apparently told her that he wasn't anymore. I am still looking for work. Still trying to rebuild my life. It's unbelievably hard. The overwhelming arc of the past, present, and possible future of being alone and forgotten without her can make me feel so empty. Lora is the woman I love. She is the one I want to spend my life with. I wish none of this had happened but it did and I just want to make things right. I pray God finds it in His will to help me, and to help her. I may not mean much to her right now, but I still love her and don't want to see her ruin herself. It may seem pathetic or weak but I still pray for a future with her. I want Lora to want to be with me again and I want us to together become what God intended when He created love. Maybe I am not facing reality completely? I don't know. I only know how I feel and I pray God will bring us back to each other.

Maybe it's not my place but any prayers given towards my situation as well would be appreciated.

Hello Dear I'm so glad you came back again to this prayer. Aju can really help you he and Chris have helped me so much and He knows exactly what you are going through. IT IS ALWAYS YOUR PLACE TO ASK FOR PRAYER! GOD sent us to prayer for each other. I Promise stay with this group and things will turn around for you it may take time but it will!!! Stay Strong

P.S. incase you didn't know YOU were the first person I met on this site and started talking to! You gave me hope to hold on!! DON'T GIVE UP ON HER!! In Jesus Name I Pray for you. Amen

Michael,

I can clearly understand what you are going through. What you went through is what I went through 2 years back, but the duration of leaving was 1 Month. Dec '10 we were planning of a future together & Jan '11, she left me due to familial pressures.

My girl still has no other guy in her life. I've patiently, prayerfully waited for more than 2 years & I'm willing to wait further for my Heavenly Father's amazing Miracle & timing so I can share my Praise Report. 

I stand in agreement with you on your intention of a Marriage with Lora. 

Don't ever give up, hang in there, persist in Prayer. 

Even the Loudest Shout or a Quiet Sob, GOD can always hear a Silent Prayer from a sincere heart !!!  

The Smallest of Prayers from the Biggest of Hearts, can change more than we can imagine !!!
Prayer is the place, where Burdens change Shoulders !!! 

Prayer has great power, especially when we add Patience, Persistence & Praise !!! 

P.U.S.H. ---> Pray Until Something Happens !!! 

"For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them."  (Matthew 18:20) 

“With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.†(Mark 10:27)
"Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours." (Mark 11:24) 
 
GOD Bless !!! 

Aju THANK YOU so much for praying and sharing your story with Michael he is a dear friend to me now and I have been praying and trying to help him through this but we need some more help I invited him to our group to help him see there is hope and faith and with Trust in the Lord and prayer all around with us he can too get his Praise Report One day soon!!! Again Thank You.... God Bless

 

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[ServantofYeshua]

I prayed for all of us in Jesus Christ's name and believe in him. Amen