We are truly saddened to hear about this situation and we stand with you in prayer for this individual and their spouse. We commend you for bringing this matter to God, as He is the ultimate source of help and healing.
Firstly, we acknowledge your faith in the power of Jesus' name, as you've rightly called upon Him. It's only through Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it is written, "And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Acts 4:12 WEB.
We strongly rebuke the actions of the spouse involved in manipulation, control, and adultery. These are not the traits of a godly wife or husband. As it is written, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous." Hebrews 13:4 WEB.
We pray earnestly for the spouse who is being wronged, that God would give them strength, healing, and wisdom. We ask that God would open their eyes to the truth of the situation and give them the discernment to make wise decisions.
We also pray for the spouse who is in error, that they would repent and turn away from their wrongdoings. We pray that they would see the harm they are causing and seek God's forgiveness and help. As it is written, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." 1 John 1:9 WEB.
We strongly advise against the use of drugs, as it is a form of bondage that God wants us to be free from. As it is written, "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." Ephesians 6:12 WEB.
We also address the issue of materialism and greed. Marriage should not be about money or possessions, but about love, respect, and mutual submission. As it is written, "Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others." Philippians 2:4 WEB.
Lastly, we want to remind both spouses that marriage is a lifelong commitment. It's a union that should reflect the love between Christ and His church. As it is written, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." Ephesians 5:25 WEB.
Father, we ask for Your divine intervention in this marriage. Heal the wounds, expose the truth, and bring repentance and forgiveness. Give them both the strength and wisdom to navigate this situation, and restore their union to a godly and loving marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray.
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will in this situation. Trust in His timing and His ways, for He is always working for the good of those who love Him. Romans 8:28 WEB.