so tired of my situation and unanswered prayers

[Anonymous]

im so tired of praying, asking for prayers and hoping, believing. just to be disappointed repeatedly when my prayers aren't answered and i'm in basically the same place (situation) as I was before. people tell me to not lose hope. to keep trusting and believing. i have done that - or tried to do that for a long time. for years i have felt like god is either punishing me or allowing me to be punished. especially if i have said or done certain things. there is so much im having to deal with daily. worst part is i have zero support system. family has betrayed me years ago and act like i dont exist. friends have shown my disloyalty and the ones i was once close with have moved away. gotten married, had families and forgot about me. i'm tired and exhausted with everything. worried about family health etc even though they ignore me and have nothing to do with me. aside from telling lies and spreading rumors. i've lost too many relatives including my best friend and most important person to me - my mom. her death turned my world upside down. no breakthrough. no answers to my prayers. things im praying for are in the bible and gods will for me. well over 25 years for certain things is too long to be praying and believing. feel hopeless anymore. i wish god would take me off this planet! i have tried so hard to meet people, to make friends and to hope and pray to be married - over 25 years. it sukks to be hoping and believing for something god put in my heart to only have people toss out bible verses like stale potato chips "oh its gods timing..." blah blah. then to go so far as to request prayers and only get two people who supposedly have prayed. yeah that's encouraging. *sarcasm* ive had chest pain for a couple of years or more. been told i had a heart attack before. yet drs dont seem concerned when i mention it. i cant take anymore stress and disappointment. the loneliness. the depression and sadness are more than i can even bear most days. ive endured this garbage in my life for a very long time and i want it all to end!!! if you pray - ask god to have mercy and take me off this planet. i want to be with my mom in heaven. im weary and tired of life. this isnt living! its torment!! i care so much about others yet nobody turns their head around for me. they simply do not care. it sukks to be used by people and lied to.

 

[Articles]

We understand your deep sorrow and weariness, dear one. You've carried these burdens for too long, and your heart is crying out for relief. We want to lift you up in prayer and speak grace and truth into your life.

Firstly, we want to remind you of God's heart for you. He says in Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), "‘For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,’ says Yahweh, ‘thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.'" Even when you feel forgotten, God has a plan and a purpose for you.

However, we want to address some things that seem to be weighing heavily on your heart. You've mentioned that you feel punished by God. We want to reassure you that God is not a punitive taskmaster. Rather, He disciplines those He loves (Hebrews 12:6). He is always drawing you closer to Him, even through trials.

You've also expressed a deep loneliness and desire for marriage. We want to encourage you that God can fill that void. Psalm 147:3 tells us, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." We pray that God would be your comfort and strength in your loneliness. We also pray that if it is His will, He would bring a godly spouse into your life. Remember, it's not about finding just anyone, but someone who loves and cherishes you as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25).

We also want to address your physical health. Please continue to seek medical advice and be persistent with your doctors about your chest pain. Proverbs 2:11 says, "Discretion will watch over you. Understanding will keep you," so it's wise to be proactive about your health.

Lastly, we want to speak to your despair and thoughts of leaving this world. We want to remind you that your life is precious to God. He knew you before you were born (Psalm 139:13-14), and He has a purpose for you. In John 10:10, Jesus says, "The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly." Jesus wants to give you abundant life, not take it away.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up our dear sister to You. She's weary, Lord. She's been carrying heavy burdens for so long. We ask that You would be her strength and comfort. Heal her heart, Lord. Remind her of Your unfailing love. Bring people into her life who will love and support her. Guide her to a godly spouse if it is Your will. Give her wisdom and persistence regarding her health. Most importantly, Lord, help her to know Your heart for her. Give her hope and a future. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep holding on, dear one. God is with you. Keep praying and seeking Him. He hears you, even when it feels like your prayers are unanswered. We're praying for you too. Remember, it's only by the name of Jesus that we can come to the Father (John 14:6). Keep trusting in Him.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, and we want you to know that we hear your cries. It's been a long, hard road, hasn't it? We're sorry that you've felt alone in your struggles, but please know that you're not. We're in this with you, and we're going to keep lifting you up in prayer.

We understand your frustration with unanswered prayers. It's easy to feel like God is either punishing you or just doesn't care. But we want to remind you of something important: God is love (1 John 4:8). He doesn't delight in your suffering, but He does allow it to happen because He has a purpose for it (Romans 8:28). He's not ignoring you; He's using these trials to shape you and draw you closer to Him.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking support. We know it's hard when your family and friends have let you down, but there are still people out there who care. Consider joining a local church or a support group. You don't have to go through this alone.

And remember, it's okay to feel tired, to feel overwhelmed. It's okay to ask God, "Why?" and to express your frustrations to Him. He can handle it. Just keep talking to Him, keep trusting Him. He sees you, He hears you, and He loves you more than you can imagine.

We're going to keep praying for you, that God would give you the strength to endure, the hope to keep going, and the faith to trust in His love for you. We're in this together, and we're not going to give up on you. Keep holding on, dear one. God is with you, and He's not going anywhere.

 

[PrayerAngel67]

im so tired of praying, asking for prayers and hoping, believing. just to be disappointed repeatedly when my prayers aren't answered and i'm in basically the same place (situation) as I was before. people tell me to not lose hope. to keep trusting and believing. i have done that - or tried to do that for a long time. for years i have felt like god is either punishing me or allowing me to be punished. especially if i have said or done certain things. there is so much im having to deal with daily. worst part is i have zero support system. family has betrayed me years ago and act like i dont exist. friends have shown my disloyalty and the ones i was once close with have moved away. gotten married, had families and forgot about me. i'm tired and exhausted with everything. worried about family health etc even though they ignore me and have nothing to do with me. aside from telling lies and spreading rumors. i've lost too many relatives including my best friend and most important person to me - my mom. her death turned my world upside down. no breakthrough. no answers to my prayers. things im praying for are in the bible and gods will for me. well over 25 years for certain things is too long to be praying and believing. feel hopeless anymore. i wish god would take me off this planet! i have tried so hard to meet people, to make friends and to hope and pray to be married - over 25 years. it sukks to be hoping and believing for something god put in my heart to only have people toss out bible verses like stale potato chips "oh its gods timing..." blah blah. then to go so far as to request prayers and only get two people who supposedly have prayed. yeah that's encouraging. *sarcasm* ive had chest pain for a couple of years or more. been told i had a heart attack before. yet drs dont seem concerned when i mention it. i cant take anymore stress and disappointment. the loneliness. the depression and sadness are more than i can even bear most days. ive endured this garbage in my life for a very long time and i want it all to end!!! if you pray - ask god to have mercy and take me off this planet. i want to be with my mom in heaven. im weary and tired of life. this isnt living! its torment!! i care so much about others yet nobody turns their head around for me. they simply do not care. it sukks to be used by people and lied to.

Sorry you are going through so much. It can be hard to find loyal people to be friends/ or relationship. Praying for God to put good people in your path. I always rell people that say they have no one in your life to find someone worse off than you...and be a friend to them. Praying for divine help and Gods spirit to give you hope and raise you out of despair. In Jesus name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Betormor]

im so tired of praying, asking for prayers and hoping, believing. just to be disappointed repeatedly when my prayers aren't answered and i'm in basically the same place (situation) as I was before. people tell me to not lose hope. to keep trusting and believing. i have done that - or tried to do that for a long time. for years i have felt like god is either punishing me or allowing me to be punished. especially if i have said or done certain things. there is so much im having to deal with daily. worst part is i have zero support system. family has betrayed me years ago and act like i dont exist. friends have shown my disloyalty and the ones i was once close with have moved away. gotten married, had families and forgot about me. i'm tired and exhausted with everything. worried about family health etc even though they ignore me and have nothing to do with me. aside from telling lies and spreading rumors. i've lost too many relatives including my best friend and most important person to me - my mom. her death turned my world upside down. no breakthrough. no answers to my prayers. things im praying for are in the bible and gods will for me. well over 25 years for certain things is too long to be praying and believing. feel hopeless anymore. i wish god would take me off this planet! i have tried so hard to meet people, to make friends and to hope and pray to be married - over 25 years. it sukks to be hoping and believing for something god put in my heart to only have people toss out bible verses like stale potato chips "oh its gods timing..." blah blah. then to go so far as to request prayers and only get two people who supposedly have prayed. yeah that's encouraging. *sarcasm* ive had chest pain for a couple of years or more. been told i had a heart attack before. yet drs dont seem concerned when i mention it. i cant take anymore stress and disappointment. the loneliness. the depression and sadness are more than i can even bear most days. ive endured this garbage in my life for a very long time and i want it all to end!!! if you pray - ask god to have mercy and take me off this planet. i want to be with my mom in heaven. im weary and tired of life. this isnt living! its torment!! i care so much about others yet nobody turns their head around for me. they simply do not care. it sukks to be used by people and lied to.

I'm so sorry to hear of your suffering. There's no way around it. We are pilgrims in a foreign land. This life is suffering. I'm praying for you.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.