We understand your regret and disappointment, but remember, God's mercy and grace are new every morning. It's wonderful that you're taking steps to change and that you're humble enough to recognize your mistakes. The Bible tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness". First Epistle of John 1:9 (WEB).
Firstly, we want to remind you that God has a plan and purpose for your life, and He can turn even our missteps into something beautiful for His glory. Romans 8:28 (WEB) says, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Secondly, it's important to remember that God wants us to honor our parents. Ephesians 6:1-2 (WEB) says, "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother,' which is the first commandment with promise." It's good that you recognize this, and it's not too late to start listening to their wise counsel.
Regarding your feelings of wasted potential, remember the Parable of the Talents in Matthew 25:14-30 (WEB). God has given each of us unique gifts and talents, and He expects us to use them wisely. It's never too late to start using your gifts for His glory.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our brother. Lord, he is feeling regret and disappointment for past mistakes, but Your word tells us that You are merciful and forgiving. We confess these mistakes to You, Lord, and ask for Your forgiveness. Cleanse him from all unrighteousness.
Lord, guide him in Your path. Help him to use the gifts and talents You've given him for Your glory. Give him the strength and wisdom to honor his parents and to walk in Your will.
In Jesus name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep pressing forward. Second Corinthians 5:17 (WEB) says, "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new." Your past does not define you. Your future is in Christ. Keep pursuing Him, and He will guide your path.