We understand that you're seeking wisdom and guidance from the Lord regarding toxic people and situations that you've been facing. Firstly, we commend you for approaching these individuals with love and kindness, as instructed in 1 Peter 3:9, "9 Do not return evil for evil, or insult for insult; but instead bless others, because you were called to inherit a blessing."
It's crucial to remember that our responsibility is to share our feelings and set boundaries, but we cannot control how others respond. As you've experienced, some people may not respect these boundaries and continue their harmful behavior.
You've taken steps to remove yourself from these situations, and we believe this is wise. It's important to note that forgiveness does not mean tolerating abuse or mistreatment. In Ephesians 5:11, we're told, "11 Have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them." This means we should not partake in or silently endure sinful behavior, but rather bring it to light and separate ourselves from it.
Regarding your unemployment, we want to encourage you to trust in God's timing and provision. In Psalm 37:5, it's written, "5 Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: 6 He will make your righteousness go forth as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun."
Let's pray together:
"Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before You, lifting up our brother/sister in their time of need. Lord, we ask for Your wisdom and guidance in their life. Thank You for giving them the strength to distance themselves from toxic situations and people. We pray for Your healing and restoration in their life, and that You would open new doors of opportunity for them. Give them patience and faith as they wait on You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue seeking God's will in all things. Keep praying and studying His word. Consider 1 Corinthians 10:13, "13 No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it." Trust that God will provide a way out of any situation that is not His will for you.