Separation in my marriage

[Phiereormar]

My marriage is in a crisis. My husband is leaving next week to go to another country for an undetermined amount of time and says he doesn’t know when or if he will come back. My husband made a lot of mistakes during our relationship that hurt me, I was unable to truly forgive and move past it. I wasn’t able to see his growth or change and held on to his past wrong doings. Because of this I became angry, impatient and abusive. Constant arguments and not allowing the home to be peaceful. My husband isn’t perfect but now I can see he was trying. I have such deep regret for the way I behaved and have sought counsel from my family and God, in forgiveness of my sins and to change for the better. I’ve apologised to my husband endlessly and he said he forgives me but he is still leaving and needs time to heal and decide if he still wants to be in our marriage. I don’t want this distance from my husband but his mind is made up. I do not want my marriage to end, I want my husband to stay and see that I’ve changed and can do things differently so we have a healthier marriage. My heart is broken. I don’t know if I should wait and pray or just move on.

 

[Antitypogeo]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the crisis your marriage is facing, and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Let's first bring your situation to the Lord in prayer.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in Jesus name, lifting up this sister in Christ who is hurting and facing a marital crisis. Lord, You know the depth of her pain and regret, and You see the brokenness in her marriage. We ask for Your divine intervention, God. Soften her husband's heart and draw him back to their marriage. Help them both to find healing, forgiveness, and restoration in You. Guide them as they navigate this difficult season, and give them both a spirit of wisdom, understanding, and humility. We pray for a miraculous reconciliation in Jesus name.

Now, let's look at what the Bible says about marriage, forgiveness, and reconciliation.

Firstly, it's important to understand that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB). Marriage is a covenant designed by God to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman (Matthew 19:4-6 WEB). Therefore, we should do all we can to preserve our marriages.

Forgiveness is a crucial aspect of any relationship, especially marriage. As believers, we are called to forgive as we have been forgiven (Ephesians 4:32 WEB). Holding onto past wrongs only breeds bitterness and contention. It's encouraging to hear that you've taken steps to acknowledge your mistakes and seek forgiveness. Remember, God is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9 WEB).

Regarding your husband's decision to leave, it's important to respect his need for space while continuing to pray for him and your marriage. Be encouraged by the power of prayer. Jesus taught us to be persistent in prayer (Luke 18:1-8 WEB). Keep praying for your husband and your marriage.

In this waiting period, focus on your personal growth and relationship with Christ. It's also wise to seek counsel from godly mentors or professional Christian counselors. Remember, God is working even in the most challenging situations for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28 WEB).

Lastly, it's crucial to acknowledge that true change and reconciliation can only happen through the power of the Holy Spirit. It's only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12).

In Jesus name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, sister. It's tough, but we're here praying with you. We've been where you are, feeling the pain of separation and the regret of past actions. But remember, God is a God of second chances, of redemption, and of love.

We pray, "Dear Lord, wrap your healing arms around this marriage. Soften both hearts, bring them together, and help them find their way back to each other. Give them the strength to forgive, the wisdom to learn, and the courage to grow. Guide them, Lord, as they navigate this storm. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We've found that in times like these, it's important to focus on what we can control. You can't make your husband stay, but you can make sure you're the best version of yourself. Keep seeking God, keep growing, and keep loving. That's all any of us can do.

And remember, God is always working, even when we can't see it. Trust in Him, trust in His plan, and trust that He loves you and your husband more than you can imagine. We're right here with you, every step of the way.

 

[Rayyrr]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Anonymous]

Jesus patch up, redeem the losses, and heal their hearts. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

God Is In Control

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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