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My name is ###, I am praying regarding my suffering in my marriage. My mother-in-law who tortured me from day 1, and my husband was always supportive. Now my mother-in-law started manipulating and inserting negativity into my husband's heart. She tried to find out mistakes to prove me bad and unable for marriage, even never allowed my husband to talk with me for 5 minutes. I was so patient for 4 years now she made my life worst intentionally from mrg to night, using bad words, treating me badly. In stress as I had a 2-year-old boy, I lost my health and was unable to carry stress, started shouting. She made me use bad words for no reason, made me lose my mind. Now she used this thing and pointed me out as I'm bad, every second she teaches her son to leave me. I know I was loud and unable because she started to use bad words for my parents. Now because of my health, my husband sent me to my parents to get some rest. Now she had completely spoiled and poisoned his mind. My husband started hating and using bad words; he completely changed. I am crying day and night for help. I love my husband; I want a happy family life with my husband and child. But from day 1, my mother-in-law hates me and targeted to separate my husband from me. Now I think she is succeeded. I am unable to take it. I love my husband so much; you want him to love me, please do help me, Lord. I want a peaceful, happy life; do a miracle. I am unable to carry this stress and these troubles anymore. I ask this prayer to be successful in Jesus' name.
 
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We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage and the distress caused by your mother-in-law's actions. Let us come together in prayer and seek God's will for your situation.

Firstly, we commend you for your patience and endurance throughout these trying times. The Bible tells us in James 1:2-4 (WEB), "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you fall into various temptations, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. Let endurance have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."

However, we must also address the underlying issues in your marriage. While a mother-in-law can often cause a lot of difficulties, the Bible says the following in Mark 10:8-9 about marriage and separation, "and the two will become one flesh, so that they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." There is no reason to allow a mother-in-law to separate a marriage. God does not want that man and wife to be separated.

It is crucial to remember that God hates divorce, as stated in Malachi 2:16 (WEB), "'For I hate divorce,' says Yahweh, the God of Israel, 'and him who covers his garment with violence!' says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.'"

We must also address the issue of using bad words and losing your temper. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:29 (WEB), "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." It is important to remain calm and speak with grace, even in difficult situations.

Let us pray together for your marriage, your husband, and your mother-in-law.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is facing immense trials in her marriage. Lord, You know the pain and suffering she has endured at the hands of her mother-in-law, and the strain this has put on her relationship with her husband.

Father, we pray for a hedge of protection around her marriage, that no scheme of the enemy will prevail against it. We pray for her husband, that his heart would be turned back towards her, and that he would see the truth in this situation. We pray that the mother-in-law will be convicted in her heart for the wrong being done and repent.

We ask that You would help her to forgive her mother-in-law for the pain she has caused, and to release any bitterness or resentment. We pray that You would give her the strength to endure, the wisdom to navigate this situation, and the grace to respond with love and kindness.

Lord, we ask for a miracle in this situation. That You would soften hearts, open eyes, and bring healing and restoration to this marriage. We pray for Jesus to work in each of their hearts to bring reconciliation. We ask all of this in Jesus Christ's name.

We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and to trust in the Lord. Remember that the battle is not yours, but God's (2 Chronicles 20:15). Continue to seek the Lord, and He will guide you through this storm.

Lastly, we want to remind you that it is so important to pray in the name of Jesus. As it says in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" and in Acts 4:12 (WEB) "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" You did great by acknowledging this in your prayer request. Jesus is the way, the truth and the life.

In Jesus Christ's name, we pray for you.
 
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We're here for you, dear friend. We can only imagine the emotional turmoil you're going through. Let's lift your burden together and bring it to Jesus. We believe in the power of prayer and we're confident that God hears your cries.

We've been where you are, feeling helpless and overwhelmed. But remember, God is always faithful, even in the darkest times. He sees your pain, He hears your tears, and He's right there with you. As it says in Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."

We're praying for your marriage, for your husband's heart to be turned back towards you, and for your mother-in-law to see the error of her ways. We're asking God to give you the strength to endure, the wisdom to navigate this situation, and the grace to respond with love and kindness, just as He has commanded us in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.

We're also praying for a miracle, dear friend. We're asking God to soften hearts, open eyes, and bring healing and restoration to your marriage. We're trusting in Jesus' power to work in each of your hearts, bringing reconciliation and peace.

Please keep trusting in the Lord, and remember that He is fighting for you. As it says in Romans 8:28, "And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose."

We're here for you, every step of the way. Let's keep lifting our voices together, in Jesus' name.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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