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Ever since we moved into my husband's late parents' house, my marriage has been affected. Most people are not happy that we are living in the house. The youngest sibling wants to live in his house with his gf. All he does is gossiping about me, slandering, etc. The youngest brother is also substance as well and does as he please in the house we live in. Anyway, I feel very unhappy. I want to support my husband's decision, but it's breaking me down mentally. The environment is not good for my kids. It's hard when home and work environments are toxic. I feel like moving back to my parents' house. That's how I feel.
 
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We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage and family life due to your living situation. Firstly, let's bring your circumstances before the Lord in prayer.

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister who is feeling overwhelmed and unhappy due to her living situation. We pray for Your peace and guidance to fill her heart and mind. We pray for her marriage, that You would strengthen her and her husband's bond, and give them the wisdom to make decisions that honor You and benefit their family. We also pray for the sibling who is causing strife, that You would convict his heart and bring him to a place of repentance and restoration. In Jesus' name, we pray for healing and unity in this family.

Now, let's address your concerns from a biblical perspective. The Bible tells us, "If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men" (Romans 12:18 WEB). It's commendable that you want to support your husband's decision, but it's also important to communicate openly with him about how the situation is affecting you and your children.

The Bible also warns us against gossip and slander, "Don't use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them" (Ephesians 4:29 WEB). The actions of the youngest sibling are not pleasing to God, and it's important that these issues are addressed in a loving and firm manner.

Regarding the substance abuse, the Bible tells us, "Don't be drunk with wine, because that will ruin your life. Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit" (Ephesians 5:18 WEB). This behavior is not only harmful to him but also to those around him, including your family.

It's crucial to remember that your first responsibility is to your immediate family - your husband and your children. If the environment is toxic and harmful to your kids, then it's your duty to protect them. Consider this verse, "But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever" (1 Timothy 5:8 WEB).

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your focus on Jesus Christ through this trial. It is only by His name that we can be saved and only by His name do we have access to God the Father (Acts 4:12). He is our strength and our shield. Trust in Him to guide you and your family through this challenging time.

Please consider discussing this situation openly with your husband. Together, seek God's will for your family. It might be helpful to consult with a pastor or a Christian counselor for guidance.
 
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We're here for you, sister. We've been where you are, feeling overwhelmed and unhappy due to living circumstances. Let's turn to our Heavenly Father together. "Father, we come to You in Jesus' name. We lift up this sister, her marriage, and her family. Fill her heart and mind with Your peace and guidance. Strengthen her and her husband's bond, and give them wisdom to make decisions honoring You. Convict the heart of the sibling causing strife, bring him to repentance and restoration. Heal and unite this family, in Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We understand the strain of toxic environments, especially when home and work are affected. It's tough when you feel like moving back to your parents' house is the only way out. But remember, God is always with you, guiding you. Let's keep our focus on Him, our strength and shield.

We encourage you to talk openly with your husband about how this situation is affecting you and your children. Together, seek God's will for your family. It might help to consult with a pastor or Christian counselor. Trust in God's plan, even when it's hard to see. You're not alone, we're praying for you.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by ###, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
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We continue to lift you and your family up in prayer, dear sister, as you navigate this challenging season. We are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you, interceding for your marriage, your family, and your living situation.

If God has answered this prayer, we would love to hear your praise report, so we can rejoice with you. If you did not see the answer yet, please do not hesitate to share an update or post the request again. We are here to continue praying with you and for you as long as it takes. May God bring peace and restoration into your home and use even this difficult time to magnetize His love and faithfulness in your life. May you experience supernatural strength and wisdom as Jesus Christ leads you and guides you through the Holy Spirit.

Please remember us in your own prayers as well. We pray for renewed unity in your marriage even in the face of external pressure and deception. We pray that both your husband and you will experience deep conviction and restoration in Christ Jesus. We pray for your children, we pray that they will be protected from any negative influences and that they will grow to love the Lord in their own right with strength and courage. We pray in the name of Jesus Christ that you and your husband will have supernatural wisdom and make the right decisions for your home and your family. We pray that if it is God's will that you will continue to live in this house be very fruitful to your family's unity, peace and love for God and one another. We ask that the Lord directs your paths and moves mightily in the hearts of your family. May Jesus bring peace, healing to your environment. We pray for a quick end to your struggles. May your husband and your kids be bless beyond measure, with signs and wonders following their lives. We ask that God strengthen and protect your marriage and that He will turn the hearts of your siblings. May all the lies and gossip stop allowing healing and love to take root. May Jesus Christ lead and guide all involved to victory, prosperity and peace.

And may God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. We stand with you as your partners in prayer. In Jesus Name.
 
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