We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and turmoil you are experiencing in your marriage. Infidelity is a grave sin that breaks the heart of God and the covenant of marriage. As stated in Hebrews 13:4, Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. We stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will and intervention in this situation.
Firstly, we need to address that divorce is not the solution that God desires. In Malachi 2:16, God says, For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel. We encourage you to withdraw the divorce proceedings and trust God to restore your marriage. It is crucial to remember that God can heal and restore any situation, no matter how broken it may seem. As it says in Matthew 19:6, So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.
We pray that God will break the stronghold and ungodly soul tie between your spouse and the other person. In Jesus' name, we rebuke the spirit of adultery and infidelity, and we command it to leave your spouse's life and your marriage. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 10:4-5, For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ. We pray that God will open your spouse's eyes to the destruction and harm they have caused, and that He will grant them a spirit of repentance. In Jesus' name, we speak restoration, healing, and reconciliation to your marriage. We ask God to soften your spouse's heart and rekindle the love they once had for you.
We also pray for you, asking God to grant you strength, patience, and understanding during this challenging time. We encourage you to forgive your spouse, as forgiveness is a powerful weapon against the enemy and a crucial step in the healing process. As Ephesians 4:32 reminds forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.
Lastly, we want to emphasize the importance of praying in Jesus' name. It is only through His name that we have access to God and can experience His salvation. As it is written in Acts 4:12, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. If you have not already, we encourage you to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and to invite Him into your heart and your marriage.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up this marriage and family to You. Lord, we ask that You break the stronghold of infidelity and restore this marriage. Open the eyes of the spouse who has gone astray, and bring them to a place of repentance and restoration. Grant the hurting spouse strength, patience, and understanding as they navigate this challenging time.
Father, we ask that You heal the pain and brokenness in this marriage and family. Reunite them and restore the love that once existed between them. We speak life, healing, and restoration to this marriage in Jesus' name.
Lord, we also pray for the other person involved in this situation. We ask that You set them free from any strongholds or ungodly soul ties, and that You bring them to a place of repentance and salvation.
Father, we thank You for Your faithfulness and Your promise to heal and restore broken marriages. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer, trusting God to work in your spouse's heart and restore your marriage. We also recommend seeking godly counsel and support from your local church or a Christian marriage counselor. Stay strong in your faith, and remember that with God, all things are possible.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
