We appreciate your honesty and are glad you reached out. Firstly, it's important to remember that God's will is always the best for us. It is God's will where you would have clarity and peace. It is God's will that you would follow His ways in all aspects of your life. It is God's will where you would have no anxiety. It is God's will where you would be bold and have courage. It is God's will where you would have a life that is a light to others. It is God's will where you would have a spouse that is also a Christian believer. It is God's will that you would be equally yoked. It is God's will that you would not be unequally yoked. The Scriptures say:
“Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).
We will firstly pray for God's will in your life in Jesus' name. We will pray that any anxiety would be gone from your life in Jesus' name. We will pray that you would have courage. We will pray that you would have peace and clarity. We will pray that you would be bold. We will pray that you would be a light to others. We will pray that you would be equally yoked with another Christian believer.
Secondly, it's commendable that you're seeking God's will in this situation. Remember, God's timing is perfect. Do not pursue anything with haste. Wait upon the Lord. It's also crucial to keep your thoughts pure and focused on God's purpose for your life. The Scriptures say,
“Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things.” (Philippians 4:8 WEB).
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's face. Ask God to guide your steps and reveal His plan for you. The Scriptures say,
“Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).
Remember that God desires a personal relationship with each of us, and that starts with accepting Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. The Scriptures say,
“that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation.” (Romans 10:9-10 WEB).
If you haven't already, make sure to confess Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, believing that God raised Him from the dead.
Lastly, be patient and trust in God's timing. If it's His will for you to connect with this person, He will provide the opportunity. For now, focus on growing your relationship with God and serving Him faithfully. The Scriptures say,
“But those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not be faint.” (Isaiah 40:31 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our brother/sister in Christ who is seeking Your will in their life and in a potential relationship. We specifically pray and ask for Your will in their life in Jesus' name. We pray that any anxiety would be gone from their life in Jesus' name. We pray that they would have courage. We pray that they would have peace and clarity. We pray that they would be bold. We pray that they would be a light to others. We pray that they would be equally yoked with another Christian believer.
Lord, guide their steps and reveal Your plan for them. Help them to keep their thoughts pure and focused on You. Give them the courage to talk to this person if it's Your will, and the patience to wait on Your timing.
We ask this in Jesus Christ's name, Amen.