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I was in a relationship with ###, I know I have sinned along the way, had intimacy with her before the engagement, and after the engagement. I have had good intentions all the way with her that I even introduced her to my parents. Later on me and my parents went for the engagement and she and the family accepted, after some time and before that I told ### to be dressing decent she agreed, so after the engagement I had an encounter with her phone, went through it, noticed some old conversation with other men and contacts she claimed for classmate, so I told her to delete them, to avoid such interaction, avoid creating video songs on tiktok that are not improving life's, and are not of GOD and delete them and Facebook account and create a new one and encouraged her to be watching contents that improves the quality of her life but she felt offended, started saying that she feels that she can't continue, she even told her parents that she can't continue, again we meet defended her statement so we said it's over, but my parents said don't be in a hurry, try talking to her, she doesn't even answer my calls or text back I know she's not that mature enough, to understand.
 
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We understand that you are seeking guidance and prayer for a relationship that has encountered significant challenges. First, we want to address the sin of fornication that you mentioned. Having intimacy before marriage is not in accordance with God's will. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB states, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore, glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's.

"It is only through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ that we can be forgiven and restored. It is only by his name that we can be saved. Joel 2:32 WEB states "It will come to pass, that whoever will call on the name of Yahweh shall be saved" Now, regarding the struggles in your relationship, it is clear that there are trust issues and a lack of agreement on what is appropriate behavior. It is important to remember that God calls us to be equally yoked with our spouses, and that includes having shared values and beliefs.

2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB states "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"

Ephesians 5:3 WEB states "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints"

As for the social media concerns, it is wise to be cautious about the influence of worldly content.

Philippians 4:8 WEB states "Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things."

We encourage you to pray for discernment and guidance in this situation. It is crucial to seek God's will and to trust in His timing. Here is a prayer for you:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up this brother in Christ who is seeking Your guidance in his relationship. Lord, we confess the sin of fornication and ask for Your forgiveness and restoration through the blood of Jesus Christ. We pray for clarity and discernment in this situation. Help him to trust in Your timing and to seek Your will above all else. We pray for the young woman, that You would soften her heart and draw her closer to You. We ask that You would heal the pain and confusion in this situation and that Your perfect will would be done. We pray for a godly marriage that honors You, Lord, if it is Your will. We ask these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."

In conclusion, we encourage you to read the scriptures, seek the Lord in prayer, and ask for godly counsel from other believers. When you believe in Jesus, He will forgive your sins and give you life everlasting. Romans 10:9 WEB states "that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."
 
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We're here with you, brother, as you navigate through this challenging relationship. We understand the complexities and the pain you're feeling. It's clear that communication and trust have been strained, and it's important to address these issues with patience, understanding, and, most importantly, love.

First, let's remember that God calls us to love unconditionally, even when it's hard. In Mark 12:30-31, Jesus tells us, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength...Love your neighbor as yourself." This love should be the foundation of your relationship.

Second, open and honest communication is key. Ephesians 4:15 encourages us to "speak the truth in love." It's crucial to express your concerns and feelings to your partner, but do so in a way that is respectful and considerate. Remember, you're a team, and you should be working together towards a common goal.

Lastly, trust in God's timing. In Romans 5:3-4, we're told, "Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope." Trust that God is working in this situation, even when it's difficult to see.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before You today, lifting up this ### and his relationship. We ask for Your wisdom and guidance in their communication. Help them to speak the truth in love, and to listen to each other with open hearts. We pray for healing and restoration in their relationship, and for a deeper trust in You. Help them to see Your purpose in this situation, and to grow in character and hope. We ask these things in Jesus' name. Amen."
 
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I was in a relationship with ###, I know I have sinned along the way, had intimacy with her before the engagement, and after the engagement. I have had good intentions all the way with her that I even introduced her to my parents. Later on me and my parents went for the engagement and she and the family accepted, after some time and before that I told ### to be dressing decent she agreed, so after the engagement I had an encounter with her phone, went through it, noticed some old conversation with other men and contacts she claimed for classmate, so I told her to delete them, to avoid such interaction, avoid creating video songs on tiktok that are not improving life's, and are not of GOD and delete them and Facebook account and create a new one and encouraged her to be watching contents that improves the quality of her life but she felt offended, started saying that she feels that she can't continue, she even told her parents that she can't continue, again we meet defended her statement so we said it's over, but my parents said don't be in a hurry, try talking to her, she doesn't even answer my calls or text back I know she's not that mature enough, to understand.
Heavenly Father, I ask that You would intervene over this situation, in the mighty name of Jesus I pray, amen.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
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We continue to uphold you in our prayers, dear brother, as you navigate this challenging situation. Thank you for humbly sharing your story and allowing us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. We appreciate the trust you've placed in us and we are honored to intercede on your behalf.

If you've seen progress or breakthroughs in this situation, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report so that we can rejoice with you and give glory to God. If the situation remains unchanged or has worsened, we encourage you to submit a new request, providing us with any updates so that we can continue to pray fervently and effectively for you.

In the meantime, we pray that God grants you peace, wisdom, and discernment. We ask that He guides your actions and conversations, and that His will be done in this situation. Remember, our God is faithful and He promises to be with us always, even in the most trying of circumstances.

Keep seeking God through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for you, trusting that God will direct your path and use this experience to draw you even closer to Him. We are praying for your former partner as well, asking God to work in her heart and bring about positive changes.
 
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