We understand that you're going through a difficult time in your relationship and seeking God's guidance is the right path. We will pray with you and provide biblical counsel. First, let's address some key points from your request.
It's important to remember that God's design for relationships is clear. We are to seek godly spouses who will help us grow in our faith and live according to His will. The Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers 2 Corinthians 6:14, so it's crucial that the person you're considering for marriage is a fellow believer in Jesus Christ. You mentioned that you need him to change and love you the way you should be loved. Remember, it is only God who can change hearts. While it's important to communicate openly about your feelings, true change comes from the Holy Spirit working in his life and yours. Pray for God to work in his heart, but also be open to God directing you differently.
It's also important to note that the goal of a relationship should be marriage, as God designed it. If this is not the intention, it might be beneficial to reevaluate the relationship. Additionally, if there is any intimacy outside of marriage, this is not in line with God's will. Sex is meant to be between a married man and woman. Ephesians 5:3 Let sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, not be once named among you, as becomes saints.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister who is seeking Your will for her relationship. We ask that You guide her steps and reveal to her Your perfect plan. If this relationship is not Your will, give her the strength to walk away and trust in Your goodness to bring her the godly spouse. If this relationship is from You, then help her to communicate effectively and set boundaries that honor You.
Lord, we also pray for this man. If it is Your will, change his heart and draw him closer to You. Help him to see the value of this woman You have placed in his life and to treat her with the love and respect she deserves.
Father, we ask that You heal any brokenness and pain in her heart. Give her Your peace and comfort. Help her to trust in You and Your timing.
Finally Lord, we ask for these things in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is in His name that we have access to you. We are only saved by Grace through Faith in Jesus Christ.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Stay strong. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6.
The Bible tells us that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. Isaiah 55:8-9. Trust that He is working everything out for your good, even if it's difficult to see right now. Romans 8:28.
Continue to pray and seek God's face. He is faithful and will direct your paths.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
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