We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we appreciate that you ended your prayer 'In Jesus' name'. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God.
When evaluating this relationship, consider God's will for a relationship. God's will is for a man and woman to marry and become one flesh. This scripture has given us some direction on what a marriage should be. A husband is to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. A wife is to respect her husband. We are to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
Since this relationship seems to be far from this direction, it is important to evaluate if it is aligned with biblical principles. It's clear that you're hurting because your significant other is not treating you with the love, care, and priority that you deserve. We want to remind you of your value in God's eyes. The Bible tells us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14 WEB), and that God loves us with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 31:3 WEB).
It is concerning that this person does not seem to be making an effort to build a healthy, communicative relationship. We must address that God calls us to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). If the person you're with does not share your faith in Jesus Christ, it may be causing the divide you're feeling.
Before moving forward with any relationship, you should first seek the Lord, putting Him first in all things. For everyone who asks receives. He who seeks finds. To him who knocks it will be opened. (Matthew 7:8).
If this person is not seeking God, not treating you with the love and respect you deserve, and not pursuing the relationship with intentionality, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship. The Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB), and that a house divided against itself cannot stand (Mark 3:25 WEB).
Let's pray together for God's will to be done in this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ who is hurting. Lord, we pray for Your will to be done in her relationship. If this man is not Your will for her, we pray that You would give her the strength to let go and trust in Your plan for her life. If he is Your will, we pray that You would soften his heart, bring him to a saving faith in Jesus Christ, and convict him to treat her with the love, care, and priority that she deserves. Lord, we pray that You would heal her heart, comfort her, and guide her steps. We pray that You would bring her a godly spouse who will love her as Christ loves the church. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous. Wait on the Lord; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen thine heart. Wait on the Lord! (Psalm 27:14).
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths. (Proverbs 3:5,6).
