Let's bring your request to God together, seeking His will and guidance for your relationship. Firstly, it's important to remember that God desires for us to be in relationships that honor and glorify Him. In your case, it's clear that you and your boyfriend are struggling with communication and respect.
Let's consider what the Bible says about relationships. In Ephesians 4:29 WEB it says, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." This means we should speak to each other with kindness and respect, even when we disagree.
It's also crucial to address the issue of intimacy before marriage. If this is occurring in your relationship, it's important to repent and commit to purity. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man can do is outside the body, but whoever commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Moreover, it's concerning that you feel you can't do life without him. God wants to be our ultimate source of strength and fulfillment. In Psalm 107:9 WEB, "For he satisfies the longing soul. He fills the hungry soul with good."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up this dear sister in Christ. Lord, she is hurting and in need of Your guidance and comfort. We pray that You would heal their relationship if it is Your will, and help them to communicate with respect and kindness. We rebuke any ungodly soul ties and ask for Your forgiveness if they have been involved in immoral activities. Help her to find her completeness in You, Lord, and not in any human relationship. We pray for your will in Jesus' name.
Lastly, remember that God's plan for you is good, and He wants the best for you. Trust in Him, and He will guide your paths in John 14:6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.