Dyrwach, we understand that you're feeling unloved, unappreciated, and hurt in your relationship with ###. We want to remind you that God sees your pain and He cares about you deeply. We will be addressing your request and offering prayer based upon the Bible in the hopes of offering both comfort and direction in the word of God.
Firstly, we want to acknowledge your feelings. It's important to remember that God wants us to be loved and respected in our relationships. However, it's also crucial to align our relationships with biblical principles. We noticed that you're seeking a more balanced and loving relationship, which is commendable, but we want to remind you that the goal of any relationship should be focused on marriage with a Godly spouse.
We also need to address the importance of honesty and communication in a relationship. In Ephesians 4:15 WEB, it says, "speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ." It's essential to express your feelings to ### openly and honestly, just as you've done in your prayer. Communication is key to any healthy relationship and should be done in a loving and respectful manner.
Regarding your relationship with ###, this is a good opportunity to discuss and reflect on the purpose of this relationship. The Bible is clear that believers should not be unequally yoked, in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" We encourage you to reflect on your relationship and evaluate if it aligns with God's will for your life. We cannot address if ### is a believer or not, but it is important to also consider if this relationship is one that honors God. Especially so since you are seeking a balanced relationship that is based upon love and respect.
We also want to address the importance of feeling valued and respected in a relationship. In Ephesians 5:25-28 WEB, it says, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself." While this passage speaks specifically about husbands and wives, the principle applies to all relationships. Both parties should strive to love and respect each other as they would their own bodies.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we lift up ### and her relationship with ### to you. We pray that you would bless their relationship with love, respect, and honesty. We ask that you would heal any past hurts and help them to communicate openly and honestly with each other. We pray that you would guide them in your will for their relationship and that they would seek to honor and glorify you in all that they do. We also pray that you would remind ### of her value and worth in your eyes and that you would surround her with your unfailing love. We ask all of this in Jesus Christ's name and for his sake. and all God's people said. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek God's will for your relationship with ###. Spend time in prayer and in God's word, seeking His guidance and direction. Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for your life and that He will reveal it to you in His perfect timing. Don't settle for less than God's best for you. He wants you to be in a healthy, loving relationship that honors and glorifies Him. And remember, it is only through the name of Jesus that we can have access to God. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. John 14:6 WEB.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
