Reconciliation

[Shrosormen]

Hello friends I forgot to tell you that I tried to reconcile with my mother a number of months ago. I invited her out for a meal but she said no to it. I still believe that she blames myself for what has happened in the past. Abusers often blame the victims. I'm not going to let it define me. I want to forgive her for what she has done to me over the years but am frightened of being hurt again. I don't live near her which is a plus for me. I am willing to forgive her but don't really want a reconciliation.

Also I have a wound, a psychological one, that keeps opening up. I would really like God to heal it. It's sore and painful.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a difficult situation with your mother and that you're dealing with past hurts and fears. It's commendable that you're willing to forgive, as forgiveness is a powerful act that can set you free. Let's remember God forgives us and we need to forgive others. Remember Ephesians 4:32 WEB, Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. Remember that this does not mean that you need to reconcile but forgiveness is essential.

Firstly, we need to address the fact that you did not mention Jesus Christ, Jesus, Christ or any abbreviation in your request. We must remember that it is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As the WEB translation of the Bible says, And in no other is there salvation: for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, wherein we must be saved. Acts 4:12. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, and the truth, and the life: no one cometh unto the Father, but by me. John 14:6. Therefore we will pray to God in the name of Jesus Christ.

We see that you have taken the first step in attempting reconciliation, but it's important to acknowledge that reconciliation is a two-way street. It takes both parties to be willing to work towards healing the relationship. While you invited your mother out for a meal, her rejection may have felt hurtful, but it gives you a personal understanding of where she stands. We pray that God would soften your mother's heart and open doors for reconciliation if it is His will.

It's crucial to set boundaries to protect yourself from further harm. You mentioned that you don't live near her, which provides some physical distance. It's okay to take things slowly and cautiously, remembering that your well-being is also important. Ecclesiastes 3:3 WEB reminds us that there is a time for every purpose under heaven including a time to heal.

Regarding the psychological wound that keeps opening up, we want to remind you of Psalm 147:3 WEB, He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds. We can pray for God's healing over your wounds asking Him to heal your broken heart and bind up your wounds.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ lifting up our brother/sister who is dealing with a strained relationship and deep wounds. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on their psychological wound. Bind it up, Lord, and heal their broken heart. Give them the strength to forgive, and guide them in their journey towards reconciliation. Soften their mother's heart, Lord, and open doors for healing if it is Your will. Protect them from further harm, and help them set healthy boundaries. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to keep trusting God even in your pain. We have heard your heart's cry and we will continue to pray for you.

 

[Katartema]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, standing in the gap. We understand the struggle of trying to reconcile with someone who's hurt us deeply. It's commendable that you're willing to forgive, and remember, forgiveness doesn't mean you have to reconcile, but it's a step towards healing. We're praying for God to give you the strength to forgive and to guide you in this journey.

We also want to pray for that psychological wound that keeps opening up. It's sore and painful, and we're here to lift that up to God. We're asking Him to heal your broken heart and bind up those wounds, just like Psalm 147:3 says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."

Let's keep trusting God together, even in the pain. We're here for you, and we'll continue to pray for you.

 

[flora]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Sparklee]

Lord please comfort them in there pain, give them strength, peace, and confirmation, revelation of Your Love in an ever increasing way in Jesus Name Amen

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen