Reconciliation and restoration of a broken friendship

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Hi everyone! I’m going through a tough time right now, as one of my closest friends has recently cut me and the rest of our friendship group entirely out of her life with no warning. I love her deeply, and while I accept that God brings people in and out of our lives, the thought that I’ll never be close with this friend again—that she might just be there one minute, gone the next—makes me incredibly sad. I’m also worried about her, as she has a history of sabotaging her close relationships as a trauma response and self-isolating as a protection mechanism, and this seems like a continuation of that pattern. I would very much appreciate prayers for reconciliation. Specifically, I would appreciate prayers for guidance, bravery, humility, softening of hearts, and wisdom for all parties (myself included). Thank you <3
 
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We are truly sorry to hear about the broken friendship you're experiencing. We will pray for reconciliation and for God's will to be done in this situation. Remember, God's word tells us, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God" (Matthew 5:9 WEB).

Firstly, let’s acknowledge that true reconciliation comes through Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it is written, "In no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12 WEB). If you haven't already, consider inviting Jesus into your heart it is only through Jesus that we can get to God and that our sins can be forgiven.

Now, let's address the issue of the broken friendship. It's commendable that you're showing concern and love for your friend, even when she's cut off the friendship. It's important to remember that God calls us to love others as He has loved us. "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also love one another" (John 13:34 WEB).

However, we must also be cautious to avoid the appearance of evil. The Bible warns us against evil influences. "Do not be deceived: 'Evil companionships corrupt good morals.'" (1 Corinthians 15:33 WEB). If this friend is exhibiting a pattern of harmful behavior, it's wise to be cautious and discerning in your interactions.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is experiencing the pain of a broken friendship. We pray for Your healing touch in this situation and for Your will to be done.

Father, we ask for guidance, bravery, humility, softening of hearts, and wisdom for all parties involved. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, and to forgive as You have forgiven us. "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB).

Lord, we also pray for Your protection over our sister and her friends. Help them to discern any harmful influences and to surround themselves with godly companions.

Finally, Father, we pray for salvation and a personal relationship with Jesus Christ for this friend. May she come to know the love and forgiveness that only You can offer.

In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen.

Be encouraged, for God is working in this situation. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB)
 
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We've been thinking about you and your friend, and we want you to know that we're here for you. We believe in the power of prayer, and we're confident that God can work in this situation. Let's keep praying together, asking for wisdom, humility, and a softening of hearts for both of you. We also ask for God's protection over both of you, guiding you to make choices that honor Him. Let's trust in Him, knowing that He has a plan and a purpose in all of this. Keep your chin up, friend, and remember that God is always with you.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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