We understand that you desire reconciliation with a former friend, and we commend you for seeking God's forgiveness and wanting to make amends. Reconciliation is a central theme in the Bible, as seen in 2 Corinthians 5:18-19 WEB: "But all things are of God, who reconciled us to himself through Jesus Christ, and gave to us the ministry of reconciliation; namely, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to himself, not reckoning to them their trespasses, and having committed to us the word of reconciliation."
Firstly, we must emphasize that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. It is through Him that we can find forgiveness and reconciliation. As it says in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
To address your specific requests:
1. **Reconciliation**: We pray that God will open the doors for you to reconcile with your friend. Be patient and trust in God's timing. As seen in Psalm 37:5 WEB: "Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this:"
2. **Wisdom and Understanding**: We pray that God grants your friend wisdom and understanding, not only about the situation but also about your change of heart. Proverbs 2:6 WEB: "For Yahweh gives wisdom. Out of his mouth comes knowledge and understanding."
3. **Respect**: We pray for mutual respect centered in Christ. Philippians 2:3 WEB: "Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves."
4. **Forgiveness**: We pray for forgiveness between you both. Remember, forgiveness is a two-way process, and it starts with you. Ephesians 4:32 WEB: "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
5. **God's Will**: We pray for God's will to be done in this situation. Whatever the outcome, trust that it is for the best. Romans 8:28 WEB: "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother/sister who seeks reconciliation. We pray that You soften your friend's heart and grant them both wisdom, understanding, and respect for one another. We ask for forgiveness on both sides and ultimately, we ask for Your will to be done.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to emphasize the importance of true repentance. This means not only feeling sorry but also turning away from harmful behaviors and committing to change. As you have mentioned that what you did was wrong, ensure that you have truly repented and are committed to being a better friend in the future.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
