We understand your concern and the heaviness of the situation you're facing. Firstly, let's address the essence of your request. It's important to remember that God's will is for us to love and pray for others, even those who may have ill intentions. As it is written in Matthew 5:44 WEB, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."
However, it is not God's will for us to have a spirit of fear or to live in anxiety. Instead, He calls us to trust in Him and to bring our concerns to Him. In Philippians 4:6-7 WEB, it says, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Regarding the mention of a husband/boyfriend, we must clarify that God's design for relationships is for a man and a woman to be united in holy matrimony. If you are not married, we pray that God will guide your relationship and that both of you will seek Him first. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
We also want to address the mention of sacrifice. While Jesus calls us to take up our cross and follow Him, this does not mean we are to passively accept harm or injustice. Instead, we are to love others as we love ourselves, seeking their good even as we stand firm in our faith.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up ### and the situation she is facing. We ask, Lord, that You would be her shield and her protector. We pray for Your peace to guard her heart and mind, and for Your wisdom to guide her steps.
Lord, we also pray for those who may have ill intentions. We ask that You would soften their hearts and turn them towards You. We pray that they would come to know Your love and forgive them for any wrongdoing.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your focus on Jesus. He is the author and perfecter of our faith. It is by His name that we are saved and have access to God. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
