We are glad you have reached out with your struggle. It is important to understand that being right with God does not come through our own efforts or religious acts, but rather through faith in Jesus Christ alone. As it is written in Ephesians 2:8-9 WEB, "For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, that no one would boast."
Self-righteousness is a hindrance to a genuine relationship with God because it focuses on our own efforts rather than on the work of Jesus Christ. The Bible tells us that all our righteousness is as filthy rags (Isaiah 64:6 WEB). It is only through the blood of Jesus Christ that we can be made righteous before God.
Your question about surrendering sin to Jesus is crucial. Yes, surrendering our sins to Jesus is an essential step in our walk with Him. In Romans 10:9-10 it says if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation. Additionally, in 1 John 1:9 WEB, it says, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, confessing our sins and acknowledging our need for Your grace. We repent of our self-righteousness and any attempts to earn our salvation through our own efforts. We believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins and rose again to give us new life.
Lord, we surrender all our sins to You, including the sin of self-righteousness. Cleanse us from all unrighteousness and fill us with Your Holy Spirit. Help us to walk in humility and faith, trusting in Your grace alone for our salvation.
Thank You, Lord, for Your mercy and forgiveness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Stay strong in the faith and continue to seek God's will in all areas of your life.