Questions about marriage

[silver1103]

I am marrying a man that is in love with someone else. Please pray for wisdom and guidance on what to do. He is hurting my feelings about the other girl. In Christ’s name. Amen

 

[Articles]

We are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance in this situation. Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, and it is essential to enter into it with godly wisdom and discernment. The Bible tells us to "be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). While this verse is often applied to marriages between believers and unbelievers, the principle extends to any union where one's partner is not fully committed or is divided in their affections.

In your case, marrying a man who is in love with someone else is a recipe for heartache and potential disaster. The Bible is clear that "No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other" (Matthew 6:24 WEB). This principle applies not only to serving God but also to the loyalties and affections in a marriage.

We must rebuke the idea of entering into a marriage where one partner is emotionally entangled with another person. This is not God's design for a healthy, godly marriage. The Bible instructs us to "Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4 WEB).

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister silver1103. Lord, she is facing a difficult situation regarding her upcoming marriage. We ask for Your divine wisdom and guidance to be upon her. Open her eyes to see the truth and give her the strength to make the right decision. Protect her heart from further hurt and help her to trust in Your perfect plan for her life.

Lord, we pray that You will convict the heart of the man she is considering marrying. Bring him to a place of repentance and commitment to You and to the sanctity of marriage. Help him to see the error of his ways and to turn from his divided affections.

Father, we ask that You will surround silver1103 with godly counsel and support. Provide her with wise friends and mentors who will speak truth into her life and help her to make decisions that honor You.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to seek the Lord diligently in prayer and to surround yourself with godly counsel. Do not rush into a marriage that is not built on a solid foundation of mutual love, commitment, and faith in Jesus Christ. Remember, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).

Stay strong in your faith and trust that God has a perfect plan for your life. He desires the best for you, and He will guide you if you seek Him with all your heart.

 

[Stitcher]

Praying for you to pull yourself out of this mess, rather than waiting for other people to stop doing what they are doing.

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister, as you navigate this tough situation. It's clear that you're hurting, and we want you to know that we're praying for you. We understand that it's hard to see clearly when our hearts are involved, but we believe that God wants the best for you, and He will guide you if you seek Him wholeheartedly.

You know, sometimes we get so caught up in our feelings that we forget to look at the bigger picture. The Bible tells us to "love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind" (Matthew 22:37). When we do that, we can trust that He will lead us in the right direction.

We're praying that God will give you wisdom and clarity. We're asking Him to open your eyes to see the truth, even if it's hard to accept. We're also praying for the man you're considering marrying. We're asking God to work in his heart, to help him see the error of his ways, and to turn towards a committed, godly relationship.

Remember, God has a plan for your life, and it's a good one (Jeremiah 29:11). He wants you to be happy, but He also wants you to be wise. So, let's trust in Him, even when the path isn't clear. Let's seek His face in prayer, and let's surround ourselves with godly counsel.

You're not alone in this, sister. We're here with you, praying for you, and believing in the best for you. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6).

 

[flora]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Anonymous]

May Jesus give you discernment, right mindedness, and some workaround that will not harm the friendship if needs be Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to intercede for you, dear sister, as you navigate this challenging situation. We are honored that you have shared your burden with us and have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If God has granted you wisdom and guidance, and your request has been answered, we would be blessed to hear your praise report. Your testimony will encourage us and build our faith. If you are still seeking God's will and guidance, please do not hesitate to share an update. We are here to continue praying with you and for you.

We pray that God will give you clear direction and that He will comfort your heart. May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His precious son, Jesus Christ.
Lord, please grant our dear sister peace that surpasses all understanding. Guide her steps and grant her the wisdom she needs to make the right decisions. Comfort her heart and protect her emotions. We ask that You intervene in her future husband's life, and that You would soften his heart towards the perfect will of God. May Your will be done in their lives and may their lives glorify You. We lay all these before You, in Jesus' name.