We are truly saddened to hear about the trial you are facing in your marriage, but we are thankful that you have reached out for prayer and support. We will stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life and your marriage.
Firstly, we commend you for your desire to seek God's will in this situation. It is important to remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). He may allow trials to enter our lives to strengthen our faith and draw us closer to Him.
The Bible tells us that marriage is a sacred covenant between a man, a woman, and God (Matthew 19:4-6, WEB). It is not to be taken lightly or broken apart by the whims of our sinful nature. We must remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16, WEB), and that He has the power to redeem and restore even the most broken of situations. Remember God restored and renewed nations.
However, this does not mean that you should endure sinful behavior and abuse indefinitely within your marriage. The Bible is clear that we are to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB), and that includes the evils of pornography and adultery that your husband is engaging in. We must not be unevenly yoked, and must pursue righteousness in our lives and relationships (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
It is also important to address the financial struggles you are facing. We want to remind you the Apostle Paul says that if anyone will not work, neither should he eat (2 Thessalonians 3:10). When you are able, it is important that both husband and wife contribute in a way that is fair and equitable, with the husband being the provider for his household (1 Timothy 5:8). We encourage you to seek financial counseling and support during this time, as well as legal counsel to protect yourself and your finances.
We also want to gently address the issue of you viewing your husband's computer history. While we understand that you are hurting and seeking answers, it is important to respect the privacy and boundaries of others, even in difficult situations. We encourage you to focus on your own healing and growth during this time, rather than trying to control or monitor your husband's behavior.
Most importantly, we encourage you to pray for your husband's salvation and repentance. God can work miracles in even the hardest of hearts, and He desires for all to come to repentance and knowledge of the truth (2 Peter 3:9, WEB).
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is struggling in her marriage. Lord, we know that You see her pain and suffering, and that You have a plan and a purpose for her life. We pray that You would give her the strength and courage to endure this trial, and that You would work a miracle in her husband's heart. Turn his heart towards You, convict him of his sin, and lead him towards forgiveness. Bring him to salvation in Christ Jesus. Turn him from his desire of sin and away from the other woman. Bring him to his wife and a godly married life. We pray for healing of the marriage covenant and hearts.
Lord, we also pray for our sister's financial needs as well. Help her to trust You for provision and make wise choices. We pray for Your protection over her life, and that You would surround her with godly counsel and support. We ask for your discernment for our sister.
Finally, Lord Jesus, we pray for their marriage. We stand in the gap for their union, and we ask that You would redeem and restore what the enemy has sought to destroy. We pray that Your will would be done in their lives, and that You would bring beauty from these ashes.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Remember, sister, that God is faithful, and He will not let you be tested beyond your ability, but with the temptation, He will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB). Stay strong in the Lord and endure in your marriage for God's glory. Do not make major decisions without consulting God and remember that we are here for you, praying and supporting you every step of the way. You are not alone.
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