We understand that you feel bound and unable to move forward, but we want to remind you of the promise in God's word that says, Whom the Son sets free is free indeed, Galatians 5:1 WEB. Let us talk about what that freedom is from. First let us discuss whether you have ever called upon the name of Jesus Christ to be saved. We can do nothing without him. If you have never done so, let us help you do that. Acknowledge that you are sinner, believe in your heart that Jesus is the Son of God, died on a cross, was buried, rose from the dead on the third day to give you freedom from the death penalty of our sins, and is now our Lord, confess your sins before God, and ask Jesus into your heart. This is what it means to become a Christian Believer. Doing so will change your situation and put you on a path to heaven. You want to study your bible so that you are able to get that much closer to Jesus Christ. You will need a relationship with Jesus Christ to include prayer, fasting, bible reading, fellowship, and witnessing to others.
We will help also to help you with everything else and we will pray for you. First, know that the first step has to go through Jesus Christ our Savior. As he says in John 14:6 WEB I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father.
As we navigate our Christian role we need to put the word of God in our hearts. We need to remember that the Bible which is basic instruction before leaving earth, is our guide to how to Heaven when we leave this earth. As it says in Hebrews 4:12 ESV For the word of God is the living and active, sharper than any two edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.
If you are truly saved, do not forget to pray without ceasing as it tells us in 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 WEB Rejoice always. Pray without ceasing. In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus toward you. We want to remind you that Christians need to remember to put on the armor of God each day. We are in a spiritual battle each day. We need to understand that we need the armor of God Ephesians 6:10-18 to help us deal with our enemies which are not of flesh and blood.
You mentioned feeling stuck. Have you forgiven everyone? When Peter asked in Matthew 18:21-22 WEB Then Peter came and said to him Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Until seven times? Jesus said to him I do not tell you until seven times but until seventy times seven. there is no limit to how much you need to forgive.
Regarding praying for you sons, your Christian station of being a parent is critical to their development as Christians also. Ephesians 6:4 WEB says: You fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. Since God gives parents authority in Christ as it takes a made and a female to create a child, you have the authority to make right decisions for them. Keep Proverbs 22:6 WEB in mind which says: Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.
We are praying for your breakthrough in Jesus' name. Lord as Christians, we stand in prayer with Wenreth and their sons, asking for You to set them free from all chains and bondage. Be encouraged and believe that with God, all things are possible Matthew 19:26. Whether this feeling is a form of spiritual warfare, sin, or other malady, in Jesus name you can overcome. You especially might need stronger Christian believers to help come into agreement with them. Remember also in Matthew 18:19 it says Again, truly I tell you, that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they will ask, it will be done for them by my Father who is in heaven. For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the midst of them.
We encourage you to read and meditate on the following Psalm as it gives a glimpse to the time that God has saved you from your enemies Psalms 18:16-19 WEB He sent from on high. He took me. He drew me out of many waters. He delivered me from my strong enemy, from those who hated me, for they were too mighty for me. They came on me in the day of my calamity, but Yahweh was my support. He brought me out also into a large place. He delivered me, because he delighted in me. You are His and He delights in you. Pray and meditate on the passage in Psalm 18 and allow His hope to fill your heart.
We pray also that once your breakthrough comes that your relationship grows many fold and that you are able to attend church, fellowship, and have a deep bond to Jesus Christ in your relationships. Remember doing God's will involves being yoked to Christ and not being unequally yoked with unbelievers. The problem with being unequally yoked is that one person can drag the other away from Christ and put your eternal destiny in danger. This is especially true when courting. We want to keep 2 Corinthians 6:14-18 in mind which says: Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness? What agreement has Christ with Belial? Or what portion has a believer with an unbeliever? What agreement has a temple of God with idols? For you are a temple of the living God. Even as God said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they will be my people. Therefore come out from among them, and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing. I will receive you. I will be to you a Father. You will be to me sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.
We rebuked anything in your request that does not align with biblical principles and we also included the Good News of the gospel message in this message. They are tied together. You have to have Jesus in your heart. Not doing so only keeps you in your lost condition. Being a believer and having another believer praying for you is a difference maker. Being too holy or too unholy makes a big price to pay in eternity. You can only be made holy in Jesus Christ.