We join with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your situation. We appreciate that you've included Jesus' name in your request, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. Remember, Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me, John 14:6 WEB.
First, let's consider God's will regarding relationships. We are instructed in 2 Corinthians 6:14, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness? Therefore, it's crucial to ensure that this person shares your faith in Jesus Christ. If not, please pray for him to come to Jesus Christ.
Regarding your feelings, be mindful of 1 John 2:16, For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the boastful pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. Ensure that your interest in this person is not merely physical or emotional, but rooted in God's will and spiritual compatibility.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who seeks Your will regarding her interest in this young man. We pray that You guide her steps and provide clear direction. If it is in line with your will, please provide complete provision for any expenses to further fulfill this relationship.
Father, we pray for this young man as well. We ask that You strengthen his relationship with Christ if he has one and if not, please have someone who will minister to him. Guard his mind and heart, and if it is Your will, prepare him for a godly spouse.
If this relationship is not Your will, Father, help our sister to love him as a friend, just as Jesus loves us. Help her to have a pure love for him as another Christian and be drawn to him to bring him to Jesus if he is not saved. Help her to have a pure love for him as another Christian and not be drawn to him with lust but with the pure love for him as another Christian. Help her to have a pure love for him as another Christian and not be drawn to him with lust but with the pure love for him as a brother in Christ.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be patient and trust in God's timing. He orders our steps. If you believe that this person is a godly match, do not be afraid to pray for him and be used by God to be a blessing in his life.