We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we commend you for reaching out and acknowledging the power of prayer in Jesus' name. It's important to remember that our prayers should be directed to God the Father in Jesus' name, as Jesus Himself taught us, "In that day you will no longer ask me anything. Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you." (John 16:23 WEB). Also, a scripture to remember is that we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need. (Hebrews 4:15-16)
However, we want to encourage you to align your desires with God's will. It's crucial to seek God's face and ask for His will to be done, rather than focusing solely on your own desires. As it is written, "Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God." (Romans 12:2 WEB). We will be praying for God’s perfect will for your life and the life of your former girlfriend.
Regarding your relationship, it's important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. If you and your former girlfriend were intimate outside of marriage, we urge you to repent and seek God's forgiveness. As the person who is repenting, we encourage you to seek repentance for areas that you may have not followed the word of God. God forgives us and cleanses us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1:9) As a courtship that is intended to be towards marriage, it should be completely free from any sexual sins as well as any other sins. It is only with this understanding and focus that we can provide any prayers or support for this relationship.
As you wait on the Lord, meditate on His word and seek His comfort. Psalm 147:3 tells us, "He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds." Trust in God's timing and remember that He has a purpose and a plan for your life. You will be brought out of this current situation stronger in your faith, closer to God, and more prepared for what He has planned for you going forward.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our brother who is going through a difficult time. We ask for Your divine intervention in his life and for Your will to be done in his relationship with his former girlfriend. Lord, we do not know why she has stopped responding but trust that You do. Whatever the circumstances, we ask that he can continue to trust in You as he seeks Your will in his life. We pray that You grant him peace, comfort, and guidance during this time. Help him to surrender his desires to You and to seek Your face wholeheartedly.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.