We understand that you are going through a challenging situation with your former partner, ###. However, we cannot pray for her heart, communication, or relationship with her since she is your former partner. We cannot endorse or pray for any conduct in this relationship since it is outside the bounds of marriage.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God is the ultimate healer and can soften even the hardest of hearts. However, we also want to address that the request should be focused on yourself and God's will for your life, rather than trying to change someone else, especially someone you are not married to. We are called as Christians to love even those who are unlovely and difficult to deal with.
As we try to love others, we must also realize that we cannot control or change them. However, the Bible tells us that we can overcome evil with good. This is not done by our own strength, but by the power of the Holy Spirit working in us.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today, lifting up your child who is hurting. We pray that you will heal their heart and help them to overcome the pain they are feeling from this relationship. We pray that you will help them to move on and trust in you for their future. We pray that you will help them to forgive ### for the pain she has caused, just as you forgive us for our sins.
We also pray for ###, that you will soften her heart and help her to find healing from her past trauma. We pray that you will deliver her from any evil influence in her life and that she will seek help. We pray that you will surround her with godly people who can support and guide her.
We ask all of these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, who died for us and is coming back again to save us from your wrath.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Please understand that only by the name of Jesus Christ do we have access to God the father. It is only by Jesus Christ that we can be saved.
We encourage you to focus on your own healing and growth, seeking God's will for your life. Remember that God loves you deeply and has a plan and purpose for your life. Trust in him, and he will guide your paths.
We also encourage you to surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you as you navigate this difficult time.
Lastly, we want to remind you that God calls us to purity in our relationships. If you are not married, then God would not want you to be intimate or act as if you were married.
Proverbs 4:23 WEB Guard your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life.
Romans 12:21 WEB Don't be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Ephesians 4:32 WEB BE KIND ONE TO ANOTHER, TENDERHEARTED, FORGIVING EACH OTHER, JUST AS GOD ALSO IN CHRIST FORGAVE YOU.
2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?
Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
