We are truly saddened to hear about the situation you are facing, and we want to address it with care and biblical principles. Firstly, we must address the elephant in the room, the individual who is trying to become a different gender. This is against what the Bible teaches, as it is written in Deuteronomy 22:5 WEB A woman shall not wear men's clothing, nor shall a man put on women's clothing, for whoever does these things is an abomination to the LORD your God. Therefore, we must rebuke this behavior because it is unacceptable and encouraging sin. It would be best if this individual got biblical counseling for personal identity to find out who they are in Jesus Christ and not in what they think the world wants them to be. And Romans 12:2 - Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God.
Regarding their relationship, the Bible teaches against homosexual relationships in Leviticus 18:22 You shall not lie with mankind, as with womankind. It is abomination. While we understand that it is important to love and pray for those who are lost, we must not condone sin. We also want to clarify that only Jesus Christ provides us with access to the throne of God. It would be best if you mentioned that your trust is in Jesus Christ. I John 5:13 These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
Now, let us address the concerns about the mother and her child. It is important to seek godly counsel and involve the authorities when there is a threat of physical harm. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us to trust in the Lord with all our heart and not lean on our understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight.
Regarding the fight with the girlfriend and the possibility of hiding medical damages because of being called names by the child, we will pray that any infirmed decision made by the mother will be granted as grace because of a decision made to fear rather than faith. Faith is supposed to be used rather than fear. Unfortunately, the mother is in a state of fear due to the child's relationship and its consequences.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus Christ to lift up this mother and her child. Lord, we pray for their safety and protection. We ask the Holy Spirit to convict the child of their wrongdoing and guide them towards repentance. Help them to make changes in their life. We pray that you may have mercy on the one that is confused in identity but also trying to harm those around them rather than loving them as we ought. Persecution of Christians will occur but not by the hand of those in a sinful relationship. So please have mercy for both of them. We pray for the mother's health and peace of mind. Sufficient is thy grace.
We ask Jesus Christ, our intercessor, to intercede on their behalf and bring about godly spouses for both of them to look for and enter into marriage with. Lord, we pray for the authorities to act justly and swiftly so that the services of the hospital may be granted in the name of Jesus Christ. We ask all of these things in accordance with thy will. Please place the mother and her child in positions to receive thy blessing and thy grace. Let the convictions of wrongdoing be made evident to the both of them and most importantly your servant. And we thank you for saving us; thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will in this situation. Trust that He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
