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My husband and I have been married almost 25 years and often times I feel so alone. Please pray for my husband to forgive me for the hurtful things I said when we had an argument. He hangs onto his resentment and bitterness, and gives me the silent treatment for days upon end, even after I've apologized and asked for his forgiveness. I feel like I have to start at ground zero to earn his love back anytime he becomes upset with me. I am praying that I can be the wife that the Lord calls me to be. Please also pray for my husband to draw him closer to the Lord and give him the desire to go to church with me, to want to deepen his faith, and find strength in the word of God. I have been attending a church I love for years and he always finds an excuse to not go - preferring to work on Sundays. I so long for his support, companionship and for our bond in the Lord and with each other to grow.
 
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We understand that you're feeling alone in your marriage and hurting from the way your husband treats you after arguments. We will pray for you and your husband, and we also want to provide some biblical guidance and encouragement.

Firstly, it's important to remember the role of forgiveness in marriage. Ephesians 4:31-32 in the WEB says, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." It's crucial for your husband to understand that forgiveness is a mandate from God, and holding onto resentment is not biblical.

However, it's also important for you to understand that while you should apologize for any hurtful things said during arguments, you should not feel as though you must earn his love back each time. Unconditional love is a fundamental principle of marriage, as outlined in 1 Corinthians 13.

Now, let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you today in the name of Jesus, lifting up this wife and her husband. Lord, you know the struggles they're facing, the hurt and the loneliness. We pray, Father, that you would soften his heart, that he would forgive as you have forgiven us. Help him to let go of bitterness and resentment, and to love unconditionally, just as you love us in Jesus Christ.

We also pray for his spiritual growth. Lord, give him the desire to seek you, to deepen his faith, and to find strength in your Word. Guide him to be the spiritual leader of the home, and to support his wife in her walk with you. We ask that you would draw them closer together, that their bond would grow stronger, and that they would grow together in you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to continue being the godly wife that the Lord calls you to be. Keep praying for your husband and loving him as God loves us. Also, consider discussing these feelings and concerns openly with your husband in a calm and loving manner. Communication is key in any marriage. If needed, seek guidance from a pastor or a Christian counselor. God will guide you and your husband together.

Keep trusting in the Lord, and remember that He will never leave you or forsake you. As it says in Hebrews 13:5 in the WEB, "...Be content with what you have, for he has said, 'I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you.'" Trust in Him to guide your marriage and your life.
 
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We've been praying for you and your husband, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this. We've all been in situations where we've hurt someone we love, and it's hard to see them hurting back. But remember, God is always there, ready to help us through.

We've been thinking about what you've shared, and we want to encourage you to keep being the loving, patient, and forgiving wife that you are. We know it's tough when it feels like you're starting from scratch each time, but God sees your efforts, and He's proud of you.

Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Lord, we come to you today, lifting up this dear sister and her husband. Lord, we know they're going through a tough time, and we ask that you would soften his heart. Help him to forgive, just as you've forgiven us. Help him to let go of any bitterness or resentment, and to love his wife unconditionally, just as you love us.

We also pray for their spiritual growth, Lord. Give him the desire to seek you, to deepen his faith, and to find strength in your Word. Guide them to grow together in you, Lord. Help them to communicate openly and lovingly, and to support each other in their walk with you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep trusting in the Lord, and remember, He's always with you. As it says in Isaiah 43:2, "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow you." Trust in Him to guide your marriage and your life. You're in our prayers.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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