Ralaeluc
Disciple of Prayer
Please pray for the restoration of my romantic relationship. After much prayer, I am sure that this is the person God wants me to be with. In times of despair and hopelessness, I have asked Him for signs to discern whether this person was His will for me and every single time, He has responded to those prayers giving me all the signs I requested and more. I have received so much confirmation that this is my “finally” person. From the beginning, I sensed the Holy Spirit put me in this guy’s proximity just like the story Ruth and Boaz. I know the Holy Spirit spoke through me to accept to go out with him the first time because I don’t have a memory of ever deciding that myself, to this day I don’t have a logical, reasonable explanation to why I said yes. It was a work of the Lord because it was so unexpected and suddenly and it was just a calling I responded to through the Spirit. And from that very day, I have always felt this sense of “finally it is here,” “finally God answered my prayer.”
The guy I was with went through a lot of trials and tribulations recently and, despite him telling me that he was trying to work on that and on healing, his avoidant personality seemed to block him from doing so. He pushed me away because I reminded him of all the troubles he was facing and how he had to still process them. I know he was truly vulnerable with me because our relationship was one where the two of us felt safe being closely intimate and vulnerable with each other. He is a very private person and seems to have fallen on a pattern of distancing himself from those he opened up to most and trusted to get close with people that made it easier to find distractions.
Now, I heard he was dating one of them after never having told me how he actually felt or followed up on the progress he was doing with his healing like he had promised me he would. I feel betrayed but even then, I am still feeling called to pray for him and for our reconciliation.
Despite all the hurt, I want to forgive him and restore our beautiful, faithful relationship that had so much love and care. I believe with all my heart that God didn’t speak to me and then changed His mind. I believe that what I heard Him tell was true then and has to remain true today. I am remaining hopeful and with steadfast faith despite what everyone around me is saying about him because I cannot start doubting the promise God made to me.
It may sound insane but even if no one can understand the confidence I have in the Lord, I know that restoration and reconciliation in this situation is my testimony of His Glory and of His Power to work Miracles in my life. I want this reconciliation to glorify God and be proof that God can and will work everything out for my good. Even when it seems like it is over, God makes a way. Jesus is the Way.
In the name of Jesus, I pray that God is making a way for me to finally have the romantic relationship with my person like He promised me for so long.
I also pray to St Jude for him to guard me in the moments where it feels hopeless or impossible that a reconciliation will happen or that God will answer my prayer. “Faith is the certainty of the things hoped for, evidence of the things not seen.” I will remain steadfast in faith and pray that you renew me with relentless hope because all things are possible for the Lord.
In Jesus’ Name, Amen
The guy I was with went through a lot of trials and tribulations recently and, despite him telling me that he was trying to work on that and on healing, his avoidant personality seemed to block him from doing so. He pushed me away because I reminded him of all the troubles he was facing and how he had to still process them. I know he was truly vulnerable with me because our relationship was one where the two of us felt safe being closely intimate and vulnerable with each other. He is a very private person and seems to have fallen on a pattern of distancing himself from those he opened up to most and trusted to get close with people that made it easier to find distractions.
Now, I heard he was dating one of them after never having told me how he actually felt or followed up on the progress he was doing with his healing like he had promised me he would. I feel betrayed but even then, I am still feeling called to pray for him and for our reconciliation.
Despite all the hurt, I want to forgive him and restore our beautiful, faithful relationship that had so much love and care. I believe with all my heart that God didn’t speak to me and then changed His mind. I believe that what I heard Him tell was true then and has to remain true today. I am remaining hopeful and with steadfast faith despite what everyone around me is saying about him because I cannot start doubting the promise God made to me.
It may sound insane but even if no one can understand the confidence I have in the Lord, I know that restoration and reconciliation in this situation is my testimony of His Glory and of His Power to work Miracles in my life. I want this reconciliation to glorify God and be proof that God can and will work everything out for my good. Even when it seems like it is over, God makes a way. Jesus is the Way.
In the name of Jesus, I pray that God is making a way for me to finally have the romantic relationship with my person like He promised me for so long.
I also pray to St Jude for him to guard me in the moments where it feels hopeless or impossible that a reconciliation will happen or that God will answer my prayer. “Faith is the certainty of the things hoped for, evidence of the things not seen.” I will remain steadfast in faith and pray that you renew me with relentless hope because all things are possible for the Lord.
In Jesus’ Name, Amen
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